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BLAINESWORLD

#591
1.28.2008

In this issue:
1. Reflections
2. FYI
3. Poll results
4. Reviews . . . THE SAVAGES, etc.
5. TV alert
6. Estate planning
7. Websites
8. Computer tip
9. You know you're a Floridian if . . . , Part 1 of 2
10. A quote I like
11. Thought for the day
12. Advance planning department

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1. Reflections

A. Cynthia, my beautiful bride, and I had fun at my teacher
union's holiday party this past Saturday . . . first, we had dinner
at Concerto Fusion Restaurant (215.428.2899) in Morrisville, PA.

That's the two of us on the left, joined by our good friend
Linda Kanner on the right:
 
Cynthia, Linda & Blaine
 
If you haven't been to this eatery yet, do check it out . . . it is very
attractive, and the food is always great.

After a choice of soups, everybody was given a heaping plate
of appetizers . . . included was a most unusual and tasty
crab rangoon, wonton-wrapped cream cheese and crab meat
served with coconut dressing . . . there was a choice
of four entrees . . . I chose the sesame chicken, while Cynthia
had Bangkok basic shrimp with fresh mushrooms and
asparagus . . . we enjoyed both these dishes, but best of
all was the dessert: a trio of three different flavors of
creme brulee . . . you MUST try this!

Man Wong, our host and the owner of the restaurant,
added to our enjoyment of the evening by being there to
personally greet us.

From there, we went down the street to see the Actors' Net
production of GOODBYE CHARLIE at the Heritage Center,
also in Morrisville.

This is a funny comedy, featuring a talented cast . . . Susan
Fowler and Ken Ammerman had the leading roles, and Pam
Linkin had us laughing in a small but key supporting role.

You can still catch the production, in that it runs through
Feb. 3 . . . for more information, please click:
http://www.actorsnetbucks.org

On Sunday, we went to visit a Del Webb retirement community
in Manchester, NJ . . . we were very impressed with the model
homes we saw, as well as by the whole Del Webb concept . . . Patty
Skrocki, our sales associate, showed us around and answered all our
questions, and we were most appreciative of her professionalism  . . . in
addition, we appreciated the efforts of Nancy Horton in making all the
arrangements . . . should you want to check it out for yourself, call Nancy
at 908.766.7050, ext. 208; email: nancy.horton@pulte.com . . . . you'll
even get a $25 gas card just for visiting.

That said, we were not too enamored with the area . . . I think
we were spoiled by the time I lived in Washington Crossing, PA
and are probably looking for something similar.

MR. CURIOUS HERE:
Are we missing something about Manchester; i.e. is it
nicer than our first impression? If you are familiar with
the locale, would you recommend it as a place to live? And as
always, keep us in mind for other 55 and over retirement
communities--especially in North and/or South Carolina.

B. My classes at Bucks have gotten off to a fine start . . . as always,
I require many of my students to read THE WALL STREET
JOUNRAL . . . it is a most informative publication that covers
not only the financial markets, but also marketing, personal
finance, etc. . . . in fact, as a result of reading THE JOURNAL,
I no longer feel the need so read any business and/or other
type magazine.

If you'd like to subscribe, I can get you a reduced rate educational
subscription that includes FREE access to the online version . . . all
you need to be is a student or staffer at Bucks or any other
school . . . or know of somebody who is; e.g., you could have
them subscribe for you.

Rates are as follows: 15 weeks, $29.95; 26 weeks, $49.95; and
52 weeks, $99 . . . to subscribe, send an email to my assistant:
hughesbr@bucks.edu . . . in the subject line, put down JOURNAL
SUBSCRIPTION . . . indicate how many weeks you want, plus
your full name, address, phone number, and email address.

C. Please continue to send me mistakes that you pick up when
reading this missive . . . typos are usually my fault, though sometimes
they may happen because I've cut and pasted something that
I received from another source--but that's still no excuse.

Other times, they may involve a link that was working when I tried
it out (something I always try to do) . . . but if a lot of other folks try
to then go there, you may not be able to get it to work when you
try it initially; do try again in a few hours if that be the case . . . or
the person who put it up may have taken it down, which often
happens with stuff on youtube.com . . . still another possibility:
the link may have been slightly changed . . . such was the case,
I believe, with the following that I sent out last week:

How to handle irritating seatmates
 
If you are sitting next to someone who irritates you on a plane or train,
follow these instructions:

1. Quietly and calmly open up your laptop case.
2. Remove your laptop.
3. Start up .
4. Make sure the guy who is annoying you can see the screen.
5. Close your eyes and tilt your head up to the sky like in prayer.
6. Then hit this link:
http://boortz.com/mp3/archive/countdown.swf

D. BEST WISHES to former congressman and Bucks County
commissioner Michael Fitzpatrick who recently announced he will run
this year for the state representative seat held by Democrat
Chris King, D-142.

I'm hopeful that he gets through the April 22 primary and then
is successful in the November 4 general election. He's always
provided outstanding service to the residents of Bucks County
(and to the citizens of the country when he served in the House
of Representatives).

***** BLAINESWORLD BEST AWARD *****
This week, it goes to Bev Stratton--office manager for Tony
Loscalzo (215.968.5500).

Tony is the guy who has handled our wills and, also, helped
us with estate planning . . . I've been impressed by his work, but
also by Bev's role in the whole process . . . she helps set
appointments, gets questions into Tony and then gets back
to me with the responses, etc. . . . she is both extremely friendly
and helpful.

It is a pleasure dealing with Tony and his office staff, which leads
me to recognize the efforts of Karen Baranowski . . . she also works
in the office, ably handling most of the bookkeeping responsibilities.

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2. FYI

Michael Gates Gill in HOW STARBUCKS SAVED MY LIFE (see
also Sections 4C, 10 and 11), wrote about the following technique
that perhaps we should all apply to our daily lives, too:

Not long after, I remembered how at J. Walter Thompson they had told me
not to send "praise memos" because such positive missives could make
them liable to a lawsuit if we had to fire the person.

In fact, once we had a special meeting at the corporation, in which the head
of Personnel told us, "You will have to fire many people, so don't commit to
them in print." We were encouraged to be as stingy as possible with any
praise-especially any written positive comments. "They could come back
to haunt us," the Personnel director intoned.

Now, at Starbucks I could freely, even sappily express how happy I was,
and how much appreciated my Partners, I started writing notes to other
Partners for being so kind and helpful to me. I wrote Kester thanking him
for his advice and leadership, and calling him a "great coach." I wrote a
note to Bianca, saying her sweet smile meant a lot to me when I saw a
long line waiting for me to call drinks and make change. I wrote to Joann
telling her how her quiet, patient competence had helped me make it
through the experience of doing everything for the first time.

I wrote Crystal, saying, in too few words, how much I appreciated not
only her giving me a chance, but also her making sure I then succeeded
in the new world I had joined.

FYI, part 2

* Sue in Pennsylvania:
I do actually think of your father occasionally . . . and how his experience
changed my life . . . he was a catalyst to helping me quit smoking . . . I
have not smoked since reading the book you sent me . . . we are all so
much more connected than we realize . . . so many thanks to you
and your Dad.

BOOK SUE MENTIONS:
THE EASY WAY TO STOP SMOKING by Allen Carr . . . FREE
copies are still available with my compliments . . . if you want
one, just send an email to my assistant: hughesbr@bucks.edu
and put STOP SMOKING BOOK in subject line . . . in body of
email, make sure you include your full name, address and
phone number.

* Vicki in Florida:
This [SHAWSHANK REDEMPTION] is one of my all-time
favorites . . . that and PAPILLION . . . I think I've I watched
SHAWSHANK no less than 20 times. THE GREAT ESCAPE
is another good one.      

Have I told you lately how much I enjoy your newsletter? 

OFFERS AND/OR REQUESTS FROM READERS:
* Jean in Pennsylvania:
My daughter, Yael, is in training for a triathlon that will
be held on April 6th, 2008.  She has been influenced by
someone she met who has leukemia and decided to help raise
money for the Leukemia and Lymphoma benefit.  The money
contributed to the Leukemia and Lymphoma fund is 100%
deductible. I made my donation on line, as you can. Her site is:
htttp://www.active.com/donate/tntgla/yaelcanavan

I am very fortunate to have good health and though I
contribute in many ways to programs and issues I believe in,
I could not think about preparing for the rigors of such
training; granted she is much younger than I am. I do work
out 30 to 45 minutes a day and would have to triple my time
and energy to do Yael's 90 to 120 minutes. I know she feels
strongly about her pledge to compete and bring in monies and
she feels that her commitment is another positive direction
in her already focused life.   

* Milt in Pennsylvania:
Purchase the most unique building in the heart of the New Hope Borough.
Owners retiring and moving out of state. Building includes main residence
and rental apartment. Residence features great room with 23 ft. ceiling and
skylights, 2 bedrooms, 3.5 baths, loft, den, office, remodeled kitchen with
stone fireplace and separate dining room. Stone walls and wood floors
throughout, three parking spaces, private garden and much more. Building
zoned commercial/residential. Price $625,000 Contact owner for more
details and private showing. 215.862.9032.

* Marie in Pennsylvania:
I am sending this email to everyone on my email list to ask if any of you
happen to have a personal connection of some sort with the Delaware
Canal or know someone who does. I'm writing a book about the Delaware
Canal, and I'd like to focus primarily on the humanity of the canal--the
people who built, worked, and lived beside the canal. Anybody have a
grandparent/great grandparent who was involved in the canal? Anyone
know the families who lived beside the canal in the early years or have
a historical house on the canal that has documentation about who lived
there and what they did? Does anyone know or have photos of people
who worked the anthracite coal mines (especially the Lehigh Coal
Mine)? 

Thanks,
Marie P. Duess
mpduess@comcast.net
v.  215.598.9616; c. 215.378.2205

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3. Poll results

The latest telephone poll taken by the Governors' Offices in Florida,
California, New Mexico, Arizona and Texas asked whether people
who live in those five states think illegal immigration is a
serious problem:

29% of respondents answered: "Yes, it is a serious problem."
71% of respondents answered: "No es una problema seriosa."

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4. Reviews

A. Saw THE SAVAGES, a look at a dysfunctional family faced
to cope with an estranged father who no longer can take care
of himself . . . there's surprisingly some humor in the film, but it is
also a touching and realistic look at a situation that many
of us either have or will face in the not-too-distant future . . . Laura
Linney and Philip Seymour Hoffman are both superb as the pair
of siblings on the cusp of middle age, having to make hard decisions
on what to do with their dad (Philip Bosco in a moving performance) . . . I
wouldn't rush out to see this in the theaters, in large part because
of the subject matter, but it definitely is worth catching up to when
it comes out on DVD . . . rated R.

B. There's again precious little out with respect to new DVD releases,
so let me take this opportunity to have you revisit CROSSING
DELANCEY--or catch it for the first time if you've never had
the pleasure of seeing it previously . . . it is a romantic comedy,
starring Amy Irving as a beautiful woman in her early thirties who has
had little luck with men . . . so her grandmother, Reizl Bozyk, contacts
a matchmaker and she is set up with a local pickle maker (Peter
Riegert) . . . I liked all their performances, along with the work as
Sylvia Miles as the matchmaker and Jeroe Krabbe as an egotistical
poet/writer . . . the accompanying soundtrack is also delightful . . . no
rating, but I believe it would be appropriate for anybody over the
age of 12.

C. Imagine having grown up meeting the likes of Ezra Pound and Ernest
Hemingway, then going to Yale and becoming a corporate
executive with J. Walter Thompson Advertising . . . along the way,
you get to rub shoulders with Queen Elizabeth and Jackie
Onasis . . . yet as you enter your 60s, you lose your job and
develop health problems . . . plus, you are faced with a
collapsing business, a new son and a divorce.

That all happened to Michael Gates Gill, author of HOW STARBUCKS
SAVED MY LIFE (see also Sections 2, 10 and 11) . . . things
kept spiraling downhill for him until one day he steps into
a neighborhood Starbucks for a latte and to his surprise, is offered
a job on the spot . . . having nothing to lose, he accepts it.

Gill is forced to start at the bottom, cleaning the bathroom . . . yet
he quickly becomes accepted by Cystal Thompson, his
28-year-old manager, and the rest of the mostly African-American
staff . . . how he grows to love both his coworkers and the job
is the basis of this book that moved me . . . I smiled, at parts,
and generally felt moved by the author's plight in others.

In particular, I liked the many stories that he shared . . . such
as this one,  told to him by his father told about James Thurber
and Truman Capote:

* "Thurber treated Truman like an office boy, asking him to do the most
degrading things. Thurber is virtually blind. He would have assignations
with women in the afternoon, right here in this hotel, and then call Truman
over to help him get dressed. One day, Truman, in dressing him, reversed
his socks so Thurber's wife would know that he had been undressed
during the day."

I also liked this passage, in which he described his mother:
* "O, glorioso!" she would exclaim. Mother lived her life with a kind of
passionate decision to view each moment as an incredible gift that
she'd been presented with. Like a polite young child on Christmas
morning, she always made sure she was thankful for, and not critical
of, anything that was given to her in her life. She also was careful
to keep all bad news buried.

Yet it was Gill's experiences at Starbucks that I found most interesting,
in that they gave me insight into both his life and the company's
corporate culture; for example, as evidenced by this tidbit:

* "Total availability" was Starbucks talk for being willing to go to work at any
hour of the day or night. I had signed up for "total availability" when I first
met Crystal and she had helped me fill out my job application. I had learned
since that Crystal and every Starbucks manager really liked baristas who
could be available around the clock. Many experienced baristas gradually
asked for "no openings" or "no closings" or "no weekends." I felt that I might
be able to do that eventually, but this year I knew I would have to offer
flexibility. And I still felt that way. Especially since I still didn't really know
what I was doing. I felt that Starbucks was still more valuable to me than
I was to Starbucks. So I gave my life completely-physically, mentally,
and emotionally--and promised, verbally and in writing, that I would
be available whenever they needed me.

The ending to HOW STARBUKS CHANGED MY WIFE was
particularly satisfying . . . I won't give it away except to say that
it touched my heart . . . and the book made me take a completely
different view of Starbucks to the extent that when I now enter
a store, I can truly appreciate the hard work that goes into
making the chain the success that it is.

D. Zig Ziglar's SEE YOU AT THE TOP was the first growth
on personal leadership that I ever read . . . I still have my copy
and refer to it from time to time.

Since then, I've read just about everything else the man
has written and/or presented (via cassette and CD programs) . . . he
has long been one of the individuals I've admired most and it has
been one of the thrills of my life to have heard him a few times
in person.

So when I came across ZIG: THE AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF
ZIG ZIGLAR, I jumped at the opportunity to hear it . . . it tells
of his humble beginnings and quite candidly, tells of his
failures too . . . he doesn't hold back and when he shares
the story of his daughter's death, you'll be moved to tears
as I was I was when I heard his rendition that obviously
had him also teary-eyed.

I loved how he talked lovingly of his wife, "the redhead," who
like him, "isn't perfect" . . . and that's a good thing because
as Ziglar recounts, if she were, "she never would have chosen me."

I also got a kick out of how he realized that he had to move into
a home in Dallas that he really couldn't afford at the time . . . however,
to rationalize it, he broke the transaction into a cost per
day figure (something he has shown me how to use in many
of his other works) and as he notes, "Would you give $1.70 a day
to get a happier wife?"

Lastly, it was fun sharing the joys in his life, such as when he
visited with the Pope . . . or when he was honored for the
help he has given countless others  . . . I only regret that I
have never had the opportunity to also express my appreciation.

This fine program is available for purchase or rental . . . if you
want to get it, please click:
http://www.achievementlibrary.com/

Above is the tape rental club I belong to; i.e., the Achievement Tape
Library . . . this a great way to hear CDs and/or audio cassette tapes,
view videos, etc.--all for a fraction of what it would cost to buy
them . . . call the head of the firm (Paul Arroyo) directly at
1.800.735.3660 and mention my name . . . that way, you'll be sure
to pay even higher prices . . . NOT.  

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5. TV alert

A. According to THE WALL STREET JOURNAL, "The quality
of HBO's astonishing five-nights-a-week drama series, IN TREATMENT,
announces itself early. Its capacity to maintain an unyielding grip on
your attention becomes similarly evident fast, as does one's strong
sense that the grip isn't going to weaken anytime soon. It
doesn't." . . . stars Gabriel Bryne and Dianne Wiest . . . begins
Monday at 9:30 p.m.

If you miss an episode, here are times when they will be replayed:httpp://www.hbo.com/apps/schedule/ScheduleServlet?CHANNEL=All+Channels&ACTION_SEARCH=SEARCH&KEY=TITLE&VALUE=in+treatment

B. Though Chris Daughtry did not win AMERICAN IDOL last
season, his best-selling rock CD (DAUGHTRY) was the
best-selling rock CD of 2007 . . . he and his bandmates
perform several tracks from that record on SOUNDSTAGE
on Thursday at 10 p.m. on PBS . . . check local listings
because PBS times and stations often vary.

C. Two different movies look interesting on Saturday . . . at
9 p.m. on LIFETIME, Jeanene Garofalo stars in GIRL'S BEST
FRIEND, a 2008 made for-cable flick about a dog-hater stuck
traveling across the country with a Jack Russell terrier . . . it
will be up against BRIDAL FEVER, also at 9 p.m., on
HALLMARK . . . this one stars Delta Burke as a romance editor
out to help her editor find "the One."

D. Go Giants! . . . I do admit being partial to the New York
team (being a transplanted New Yorker) as it battles Boston
in Super Bowl XLII at 6:18 p.m. on FOX . . . last year's IDOL
winner, Jordin Sparks, performs the National Anthem and
at halftime, Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers roll out some
of their greatest hits.

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6.  Estate planning

When Bob found out he was going to inherit a fortune when his sickly
father died, he decided he needed a woman to enjoy it with. So, one
evening he went to a singles bar where he spotted the most beautiful
woman he had ever seen. Her natural beauty took his breath away.

"I may look like just an ordinary man," he said as he walked up to her,
"but in just a few years, my father will die, and I'll inherit 20 million
dollars. "

Impressed, the woman went home with him and, three days later,
she became his stepmother.

Women are so much better at estate planning than men. 

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7. Websites

A. MIT has created a website which allows anyone from anywhere in
the world to take an online course for FREE:
http://ocw.mit.edu/OcwWeb/web/home/home/index.htm 

I am simply amazed on how great this website is.  Although you don't
receive college credit for going through a class, you will find some 1,800
courses that contain lecture notes, exams and other resources that
could significantly help anybody wanting to learn more about many
diverse subjects.

B. If you are under a great deal of stress and in need to get organized,
please click:
http://www.gottakeepup.com

It is FREE . . . and will remind you when you have meetings, birthdays,
appointments, holidays, chores, and several other things that are needed
to be done in an average week. Overall, this site is excellent and is easy
to use. 

C. BLAINESWORLD, the website, remains up and running . . . to view
it, please click:
http://www.blainesworld.net

To see something neat, please look at my picture on the right . . . then
drag your mouse to some listing on the left . . . when you do, make
sure you look at my eyes.

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8. Computer tip

Just because you get an Internet rumor, it doesn't make it true. Even
if you see the words: "I checked it out, and it is true." The same applies
to: "Snopes said it was true," and you're given a snopes.com citation.
(Some folks then give you a web citation that looks genuine, but when
you check it out, you'll find out that it wasn't legitimate. Or they'll
link you to Snopes, but when you go there, you'll find that the
answer is just the opposite of the incorrect rumor!)

So my suggestion continues to be: If you see something on the
Internet that you're not sure about, don't share it with anybody else
until you've personally checked it out with:
http://www.snopes.com

And if you can't find any mention at Snopes, then methinks
your best bet is to NOT believe the rumor!

That said, I recently was sent a few things that had validity. One was
an old one; i.e., involving pancake mix that you may have that's
been lying around . . . your best bet is to probably toss it . . . but
don't believe me, please click:http://www.snopes.com/medical/toxins/pancake.asp

The other involved the need to keep grapes and raisins AWAY from dogs;
on that one, please click:
thttp://www.snopes.com/critters/crusader/raisins.asp

Yet I also received some items that were simply NOT true . . . the first
was a piece attributed to Andy Rooney . . . stuff he reportedly says
get circulated around a lot, but is often false as you can see by clicking:
http://www.snopes.com/politics/soapbox/rooney4.asp

The same thing happens to George Carlin; i.e., stuff he allegedly says
gets circulated on the Internet . . . however, if you check it out, you'll
see that this is also false:
http://www.snopes.com/politics/soapbox/carlingas.asp

Lastly, and this is perhaps the most significant rumor . . . a friend
swears that we should not vote for Barack Obama because he
is a "radical Muslim" who will NOT recite the Pledge of
Allegiance . . . she could not back up the assertion, so I checked
it out myself and found that this is an untrue statement . . . see
for yourself by clicking:
http://www.snopes.com/politics/obama/muslim.asp

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9. You know you're a Floridian if . . . , Part 1 of 2

Socks are only for bowling.

You never use an umbrella because you know the rain will be over
in five minutes.

A good parking place has nothing to do with distance from the store,
but everything to do with shade.

Your winter coat is made of denim.

You can tell the difference between fire ant bites and mosquito bites.

You're younger than thirty, but some of your friends are over 65.

Anything under 70 is chilly.

You pass on the right and honk at the elderly, but pull over for a funeral.

You've driven through Yeehaw Junction.

You could swim before you could read.

You have to drive north to get to The South.

You know that no other grocery store can compare to Publix.

Every other house in your neighborhood had blue roofs in 2004-2005.

You've gotten out of school early on Halloween to trick or treat before
it got dark.

You know that anything under a Category 3 just isn't worth waking up for.

You dread lovebug season.

You are on a first name basis with the Hurricane list. They aren't Hurricane
Charley, Hurricane Frances . . . but  Charley, Frances , Ivan, and Jeanne.

You know what a snowbird is and you hate them.

You think a six-foot alligator is actually pretty average.

"Down South " means Key West.

"Panhandling" means going to  Pensacola.

You think no one over 70 should be allowed to drive.

Flip-flops are everyday wear.

Shoes are for business meetings and church.

No, wait, flip flops are good for church too, unless it's Easter
or Christmas.

(to be concluded next week)

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10. A quote I like

I was to learn that nobody at Starbucks ever ordered anyone to do
anything. It was always: "Would you do me a favor?" or something similar.

SOURCE:
HOW STARBUCKS SAVED MY LIFE (see also Sections 2, 4C and 11)
by Michael Gates Gill

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11. Thought for the day 

I REALLY liked HOW STARBUCKS SAVED MY LIFE (see also
Sections 2, 4C and 10) by Michael Gates Gill, as evidenced by the
fact that with he following mention, I have now cited the book four
times in this week's newsletter:

Crystal overheard me and gestured for me to follow her back to her
office--never a good sign. I had learned that she never criticized
anybody in front of the Guests, or even other Partners. She would take
you aside--one-on-one in her office.

"Mike, never refuse the bathroom to anyone," she said in a low, angry
voice.

"But that old guy wasn't a customer, he couldn't afford-"

"He might not be a customer, but everyone who walks in that door is
a Guest. That's what makes Starbucks different from anyplace else in
New York. Haven't you noticed there are no public bathrooms in this city?"

For some reason, perhaps because I had just worked so hard to clean up
such filth, I argued with her.

"But it's not Starbuck's job to provide toilets for the homeless."

Crystal did not say anything…for about thirty seconds. I could see she
was furious. Her eyes seemed to enlarge with rage.

I shut up. Somehow, I had tripped over a land mine of emotion. I felt
terrible and scared.

"Look." Her words were spaced; I could tell she was fighting herself
not to yell at me. "In my store, in our store, we are . . . welcoming. Don't
refuse that toilet to anyone, especially someone who really needs some
welcome and not another person putting them down."

She had not said "not another white person" putting them down, but
I read into it that way. But maybe I was being too sensitive. I understood
that I had made a big mistake. Crystal, and Starbucks, didn't treat people
like that.

I went back out front to try to find the guy, but he had gone. My rejection
probably meant nothing to him-New York is an unfriendly city to someone
trying to use a restroom. But I learned a valuable lesson that day. My old
arrogance had come back as soon as I thought I had done a great job.
How sad!

The next day, Crystal didn't even mention the incident. I was to learn that
Crystal didn't harbor grudges. She let you know when she didn't like
something you did, the moment you did it. And she never brought it
up again. 

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12. Advance planning department

A. Natalie in Pennsylvania:
Just in time for Valentine's Day, I wanted to let you know about a
singles events in case know of any Jewish singles who  might be
interested:
 
Sun., Feb. 3 - Superbowl Party at a private home in Bensalem
for ages 40-60--hosted by Jewish Single Encounters. Kosher food.
Last year's party sold out with 50 people (equal number of men
and women). Space is limited, so register early. RSVP necessary
by Feb. 1. $22.  Contact Garry Miller for more info: 267.560.5441
or 609.332.7144 or jewishsingleencounters@yahoo.com. 

B. Jim in Pennsylvania:
Free poetry reading series continues at Bucks County Community College
in honor of Black History Month 

Gerald Stern brings his award-winning poetry to the College on Friday,
February 8, where he’ll read from his works alongside his former student,
Ross Gay. The free event, part of the college’s popular Poetry Reading
Series, gets underway at 7 p.m. in the Library Auditorium on the
campus at 275 Swamp Road, Newtown.

Stern is the author of fourteen books of poetry including “This Time: New
and Selected Poems,” which won the National Book Award in 1998, and
most recently “Everything is Burning” published in 2005, both from W.W.
Norton.  

Gay, an African American who graduated from Neshaminy High School
in Langhorne, is the author of the collection “Against Which” (CavanKerry
Press, 2006). His poems have appeared in “American Poetry Review,”
“Atlanta Review,” “Harvard Review,” and “Columbia: A Journal of Poetry
and Art,” among other places.  He teaches at Indiana University.
 
To learn more, call 215.968.8150.

C. February Autographing & Event at Barnes & Noble,
Princeton MarketFair Mall, 3535 US Route 1 South, Princeton, NJ:

Sunday, February 10 at 3 p.m.
Event: Author Discussion/Signing: JAMES McBRIDE: Song Yet Sung
Join us as bestselling author of The Color Of Water, James McBride,
discusses his latest novel, Song Yet Sung, a powerful page-turner about
a runaway slave and a determined slave catcher, followed by Q&A.  

D. Be my guest when I present on "Positioning: How to Differentiate
Yourself From the Competition" on Tuesday, Feb. 12, at 6:30 p.m.
in Room Penn 410 at Bucks County Community College.

ADDED BONUS:
By attending, you'll learn the difference between a left-handed
and a right-handed pencil . . . I kid you NOT!

The presentation is FREE . . . however, please email me to let me
know if you'll be coming so I can notify you if there's any change
of plans.

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PS. Please join me in praying that we soon get our remaining soldiers
back from Iraq and that peace resumes in Israel . . . also, make it
a great week!

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