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BLAINESWORLD
#673
8.24.2009 In this issue: 1. Reflections 2. FYI 3. Mother to daughter advice 4. Reviews . . . THE TIME TRAVELER'S WIFE, etc. 5. TV alert 6. Elephant ears 7. Websites 8. Computer tip 9. DMV line 10. A quote I like 11. Thought for the day 12. Advance planning department _________________________________________________________ 1. Reflections A. Cynthia, my beautiful bride, and I will probably remember our first year (and most especially the summer) in Asheville as the time when we had lots of visitors. This past week alone, we got to see our financial adviser Ed Kohlhepp and his lovely wife Betsy . . . that's the four of us, overlooking both downtown Asheville and the mountains that surround us: We also had a great dinner at Carmel's (my trout was outstanding, and Cynthia liked her salmon too) . . . for more information, please click: http://www.carmelsofasheville.com/
And, naturally, we got to speak to Ed about our finances . . . we are still hanging in there, in large part due to his great advice over the years . . . for more information about his firm, please click: http://www.kohlheppadvisors.com
B. Shortly after, our good friends Chic and Joni Dowburd arrived . . . see below for a picture of all of us, taken while we were strolling the grounds of the Grove Park Inn: ![]() We even got to see a show with them: REAL ESTATE, which
is still playing through September 6 at the Flat Rock Playhouse . . . it is a romantic comedy that we all enjoyed, in large part because of star Scott Treadway's funny performance as a guy trying to sell his house . . . his agent, played by Leslie Marie Collins, had us laughing too . . . for more information, please click: ![]() http://www.flatrockplayhouse.org/
C. Earlier in the week, our friend Paul Licitra was also in town . . . Cynthia was busy that day, but I at least got to meet him for lunch at the Tupelo Honey Cafe . . . that's him on the left, along with his friend Pat LaCorte: As is the case with many places in town, I've never had a meal there
that I didn't like . . . my usual favorite is the sweet potato (oversized) pancake; however, this day I tried the homemade granola with fresh fruit and yogurt . . . it proved to be another winner . . . for more information, please click: http://www.tupelohoneycafe.com/
And lest I forget (on the subject of fine restaurants), Paul of course owns the Tuscany at the Towpath House in New Hope, PA . . . self-proclaimed as "New Hope's most romantic restaurant," it is another place where I've never had a bad meal . . . for more information, please click: http://www.tuscanytowpathhouse.com
D. Lastly, just by ourselves, we had our 6-month checkups from our dentist--Dr. Joseph Younger . . . all was fine; however, I mention this fact because of something that Dr. Younger does that really impresses us . . . he takes the X-rays that all dentists do, but then he has a machine that seems to enlarge them . . . he then proceeds to review what is happening in your mouth, right in front
of you (as compared to other dentists who look at your X-rays on some viewing
surface that is halfway across the room) . . . as he does so, he points out both
the good and the bad . . . or make that, the things that will need more work--either
then or some time in the future.
Should you want to make Dr. Younger your dentist, he can be reached at 828.277.9907 . . . you won't go wrong!
***** BLAINESWORLD BEST AWARD ***** This week, it goes to Ana Pena--the cleaning person who helps keep our house looking as good as it does. Cynthia and I were fortunate to find Ana shortly after moving in this past January, thanks to the recommendation of our neighbor Harry . . she does good work--actually, fantastic work--and her friendly disposition helps brighten our day. She is both reliable and punctual, and we recommend her highly . . .in fact, many of our other neighbors have started to use her. The good news is that if you live anywhere near the Candler area in North Carolina, Ana still has some slots open on her busy schedule . . . so if you'd like to have your house sparkle, give her a call at 828.230.7876. Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 2. FYI Look at your current cellphone or cable bill . . . then ask around to see what other rates are "out there" . . . if you find something cheaper (and you probably can), call back your current company . . . ask to see if the lower rate can be matched . . . in almost all instances, it can and will be . . . you can probably save $10-30 per month this way and spread over a year, that can pay for at least one night out for you and a guest . . . or if you don't want to go out, feel free to make a contribution to the "BGPF, which is otherwise known
as the Blaine Greenfield Pocket Fund. FYI, part 2 * Deb in Colorado: I had the gift of the opportunity to save the life of a 4 year old boy today.If you haven't taken CPR, please do. You never know where, when or whose life you may save. Thank you to the Universe for having me be where I was needed at the exact moment I was needed. Grateful! MY TWO CENTS: Way to go, Deb. And thanks for the reminder. * MaryEllen in New Jersey: Since you are already a melanoma champ, basal cell will be nothing. I am having my 5th MOHS surgery for basal cell at the end of September, all on my face. I go to Dr. Shah in Parsippany, and she is wonderful. Good luck with it and thanks for the friendly reminder lecture! * Sharon in North Carolina: And people ask me why I don't like shopping Best Buy unless I have to . . . things like this: http://tinyurl.com/n7e6fa
The number one rule of responsible consumerism is to know more about what you're buying than the guy selling it to you. * Maria in Pennsylvania: My sister was supposed to come up and visit in September, but due to poor health had to cancel. She has 2 tickets to the event below. The tickets cost $199.50 each; that's what she's asking. If you or anyone you know might be interested, here are the details: Wed Sept 9, 8:00 Carnegie Hall, Stern Auditorium/Perelman Stage; Second Tier Center Left Section T3, Row/Box 40, Seats 2 & 3. "An Evening with Andrea Bocelli and the New York Philharmonic." If interested, please contact Maria at 215.968.5364 or via email: maria@chilipeppercandles.com
* Several readers responded to the accent quiz in last week's issue; among them: John in Pennsylvania: That quiz got me right on the nose: Philadelphia. Scott in Pennsylvania: Me, too. And I loved his other comment: We'll let youse in anywho . Sally in North Carolina:: Pegged me for Philadelphia. Didn't quite jibe with my Louisiana upbringing.. Debbie in Louisiana:Used to be in radio, and I have a Cajun accent. Nicholas in Vermont: The Midland. MY RESULTS: Philadelphia, but maybe because there wasn't a New Yawk option? (Or at least I didn't see one.) Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 3. Mother to daughter advice Cook a man a fish and you feed him for a day. But teach a man to fish and you get rid of him for the whole weekend. Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 4. Reviews A. I'm a sucker for movies about time travel, but that said, I recommend that you skip THE TIME TRAVELER'S WIFE . . . by doing so, you'll save yourself some 1 hour and 47 minutes of time that you can spend doing something more enjoyable . . . this film, based on the best-selling book about a love that transcends time , dragged from beginning to end . . . I just couldn't get into caring about the main characters played by Eric Bana and Rachel McAdams (normally an actress who I like), and the production values were about the cheesiest I've ever seen . . . rated PG-13. B. SUNSHINE CLEANING is now out in DVD format . . . my review from BLAINESWORLD #654 follows: SUNSHINE CLEANING is a quirky comedy-drama, stars Amy Adams and Emily Blunt (so fine in THE GREAT BUCK HOWARD, a film I reviewed last week) as two sisters who join forces to start a crime-scene cleanup business . . . parts of it are funny, while others are quite touching . . . the supporting cast includes Alan Arkin and Steve Zahn, both among my favorite actors . . . it will remind you of LITTLE MISS SUSHINE, and that's no surprise given that the producers were the same . . . rated R. C. Way back when God was a little girl, my undergraduate major at Rider University was journalism . . . I wanted to someday be a sports columnist and so when I heard that Bob Greene wrote about his days as a young journalist in LATE EDITION: A LOVE STORY, I knew that was a book that I just had to read. Was it ever a trip down memory lane! Greene, long one of my favorite authors (WHEN WE GET TO SURF CITY, ONCE UPON A TOWN, etc.), worked as a copyboy and in other apprentice positions for the COLLUMBUS CITIZEN-JOURNAL and the COLUMBLUS DISPATCH, two rival newspapers in Ohio's capital city, just a few years before I began college . . . he recalls those days with affection as he writes: * In some American cities,famous journalists at mighty and world-renowned papers changed the course of history with their reporting. . . . [that didn't matter to Greene; his joy was in the fact that each morning . . . ] I get to go down to the paper again. Or when he comments that: * I found myself not wanting days off, even though I had to take them. Nothing that could happen on a day away from work could match the delights of the sports desk. I also liked his account of lessons he learned while a young reporter, particularly this one about his coverage of a tennis match: * I suppose if you want to be resolute about it, there were two lessons to be taken from having written the story. One: When you write something about someone, you should anticipate the moment when you will have to look that person in the eye. Two: If you were correct in what you wrote, you won't have to worry when the person's eyes meet yours. Toward the end of LATE EDITION, Greene tells about his visit to the pressroom of one of the papers that he had worked at (that was in the process of closing) . . . it touched me and got me recalling how much I missed not having two newspapers delivered to my doorstep every single day. D. Heard the CD version of THE MASTERY OF LOVE: A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO THE ART OF RELATONSHIP by Don Miguel Ruiz . . . if the name is familiar, it is because it should be . . . he had previously written one of the finest books I've ever read, THE FOUR AGREEMENTS (about the self-limiting beliefs that hold us apart and what we need to do to bypass them). MASTERY is a natural follow-up . . . it is not very long and can be listened to and/or heard in one sitting, but methinks that would not be a wise thing to do . . . I'd instead recommend that you take your time with it, so you can reflect upon the many insights shared by Ruiz: Among them: * The right woman or man for you is the one you love exactly as is . . . that you don't need to change at all. * It's easy to love your dog because your dog doesn't have opinions about you. Your dog loves you unconditionally. * [when it comes to truth] There are three rules: 1. Don't believe me. I am not responsible for what you understand. 2. Don't believe yourself. Don't believe in the lies you tell yourself; e.g., you're not good enough. 3. Don't believe anybody else. Nothing they say will guide you to your happiness. And perhaps most importantly: * We are born to enjoy life, not to suffer. Narration was done by the husband-and-wife team of Jill Eikenberry and Michael Tucker . . . both did an excellent job, adding to my enjoyment of THE MASTERY OF LOVE. Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 5. TV alert A. CRISS ANGEL: MINDFREAK features the modern-day Houdini transporting himself from 250 feet above Las Vegas to the street below . . . Wednesday at 10 p.m. on A&E. B. DO YOU BELEIVE IN MIRACLES? is the amazing story of the 1980 U.S. Olympic hockey team . . . even if you're not a sports fan, you'll find this tale inspiring . . . Thursday at 9 p.m. on HBO FAMILY. C. TERRY FACTOR: LIVE FROM VEGAS has the master ventriloquist--and AMERICA'S GOT TALENT winner--entertaining with a little help from his foam friends . . . Friday at 10 p.m. on CMT. D. If you're curious about how the pawn industry works, then catch PAWN STARS on Sunday at 10 p.m. on HISTORY . . . if you can't wait, the show's website has some interesting videos you might want to catch: http://www.history.com/content/pawn-stars For example, you can learn how a pawn works, how to spot a fake Rolex and even how to get your very own Olympic medal. Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 6. Elephant ears A restaurant posts a sign that says “$500 if we fail to fill your order.” A customer decides to put it to the test by ordering “elephant ears on rye.” The waitress writes down his order and walks to the kitchen. Seconds later, the chef storms out of the kitchen, goes to the customer’s table and slams down five hundred-dollar bills. ‘You got me,” he tells the customer. “But I want you to know that this is the first time in ten years we've been out of rye bread." Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 7. Websites A. To create, share and store your resume online for free, please click: http://www.emurse.com There's a lot of other good stuff here, too . . . but the key is the
resume service, which notes BUSINESS WEEK, provides for: Simple, intuitive resume creation. . . . The easiest way to get your up-to-date work history on the first page of a Google search. . . . 4.5 out of 5 stars. B. Want to find out unusual information about your name? If so, please click: http://www.isthisyour.name/ I did for Blaine Greenfield and learned such things as the following: * 44% of the letters are vowels. Of one million first and last names we looked at, 15.8% have a higher vowels. This means you are very well envoweled. (By the way, that's not something I share with just anybody!) * In Pig Latin, it is Aineblay Eenfieldgray. * According to the US Census Bureau, 0.015% of US residents have the first name "Blaine" and 0.0049% have the surname "Greenfield." The US has around 300 million residents, so we guesstimate there are 2 Americans who go by the name "Blaine Greenfield." C. BLAINESWORLD, the website, remains up and running . . . to view it, please click: http://www.blainesworld.net In case you're new to this missive, you can see pictures of me, in addition to my friends and relatives, by clicking "Blaine's Best" to the left and then "Pictures" . . . make sure you have your sound on to catch what's arguably the greatest rock song of all time. Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 8. Computer tip THANKS to Scott in Pennsylvania for sharing this question: What do people see when they find you online? You can control how you appear in Google by creating a personal profile by clicking: http://tinyurl.com/ma4trf People will see it on their results page when they do web searches for your name. Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 9. DMV line After standing in line at the DMV for what felt like eons, my friend James finally got to the counter. As the clerk typed his name into the computer, she said, “That’s odd.” “What’s wrong?” James asked. “My computer says you're deceased.” Surveying his surroundings, my friend muttered, “Great, I died and went to hell.” Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 10. A quote I like Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you will help them become what they are capable of becoming.--Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe (1749-1832), German writer Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 11. Thought for the day Echo of life A man and his son were walking in the forest. Suddenly the boy trips and feeling a sharp pain, he screams, "Ahhhhh." Surprised, he hears a voice coming from the mountain, "Ahhhhh!" Filled with curiosity, he screams: "Who are you?", but the only answer he receives is: "Who are you?" This makes him angry, so he screams: "You are a coward!", and the voice answers: "You are a coward!" He looks at his father, asking, "Dad, what is going on?" "Son," the man replies, "pay attention!" Then he screams, "I admire you!" The voice answers: "I admire you!" The father shouts, "You are wonderful!", and the voice answers: "You are wonderful!" The boy is surprised, but still can't understand what is going on. Then the father explains, "People call this an 'ECHO,' but truly it is 'LIFE!' Life always gives you back what you give out! Life is a mirror of your actions. If you want more love, give more love! If you want more kindness, give more kindness! If you want understanding and respect, give understanding and respect! If you want people to be patient and respectful to you, give patience and respect! This rule of nature applies to every aspect of our lives." Author unknown (if you know who wrote this and/or the source, please let me know) Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 12. Advance planning department A. There will be a Beginning Mambo Class and "Beginner's Only" Dance Party this Friday night, August 28th at the Asheville Ballroom in North Carolina. Details are listed below. We hope to see you there! Friday, August 28th Beginning Mambo Class at 7 p.m. "Beginner's Only" Dance Party: 8-10 p.m. Class Taught and Party Hosted by: Ted and Kimberly Ross Location: The Asheville Ballroom & Dance Centre, 991-B Sweeten Creek Rd., Asheville Learn to Mambo and practice your ballroom dancing in a fun, safe and supportive atmosphere at this "Beginner's Only" Class and Dance Party! Refreshments and sodas will be provided and Professional Dance Instructors will be at the party to assist students with their dancing questions. Line dances will also be taught and included in the party. No partner is necessary for the class or party. $10 Class and Party (Special $7 Rate for ages 17 & under). B. An affordable alternative to the movies--live theater! Fun for children of ALL ages, and adults as well! Come see Somerset Valley Player’s current production of The Emperor’s New Clothes. In this delightful musical comedy, the Emperor, obsessed with new clothes, hires two new tailors to make him a magical suit that only wise people can see. Only the new tailors are really out of work actors who can't sew a stitch! Meanwhile, his chief tailor is robbing him, buying third-rate materials for the new Emperor’s clothes. Discover who is wise and who is not! Also, does the Emperor ever find out his chief tailor is stealing from him? Show dates are: August 29 and 30. Curtain times are 1 p.m. and 4 p.m. All Tickets: $10.00 Tickets available at: http://www.svptheatre.org or by phone at 908.369.7469. SVP is located at: 689 Amwell Road, Hillsborough, NJ. C. I'm Harvey Mathason, President of TBD (Training By Design) Enterprises, a company specializing in teaching creativity in industry, schools and to individuals. I am the leader of "Questers" a " Mastermind" group focused on learning about creativity through diversity and sharing ideas. We have monthly conference calls. The subject for our upcoming call is "Learning How to Learn." We invite you to join our call.at 8 p.m. on Tuesday September 1. To do so, call 1.712-.432.2800 and enter the pin number 549972. We ask that you mute your phone by entering #6. This is to avoid excessive noise during the call. You can express your ideas by sending an E-Mail to hmathason@aol.com. We can only accommodate 25 people on the call. There are 7 core members so this means we can have only 18 visitors. We would like to receive some information about you prior to our call.. We leave that to your descretion.Send that information to the email address previously mentioned. The 18 visitors to our call will be selected on a first come first, serve basis. For more information, call 215.752-.5117. D. Yours truly is speaking to the residents of my development, Biltmore Lake, on Friday, September 25, at 7 p.m. . . . the topic, "Four-mula 4 Success," the 4 things you need to do every day to market yourself and/or business . . . if you'd like to attend as my guest, please drop me an email to that effect . . . put SEPTEMBER 25 the subject line of your email. Back to Top _________________________________________________________ PS. To my Muslim friends, Ramadan Mubarak! . . . this translates as a wish for a blessed Ramadan, which is the ninth month of the Islamic calendar and the most sacred of the twelve months . . . also, please join me in praying that we soon get our remaining soldiers back from Iraq and Afghanistan, as well as that peace comes to Israel and her neighbors. . . make it a great week, too! ---------------------------------------------------------- SUBSCRIBE/UNSUBCRIBE INFORMATION To subscribe to this publication, please send an email to: bginbc@aol.com and put SUBSCRIBE in subject line . . . if you wish to unsubscribe, just send an email to same address and put UNSUBSCRIBE in subject line. |