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BLAINESWORLD
#574
10.1.2007

In this issue:
1. Reflections
2. FYI
3. Meeting times
4. Reviews . . . FEAST OF LOVE, etc.
5. TV alert
6. Unfaithfulness
7. Websites
8. Computer tip
9. Letters to God 
10. A quote I like
11. Thought for the day
12. Advance planning department

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1. Reflections

A. Cynthia, my beautiful bride, and I were fortunate to be able to
catch a performance of FALSETTOS at Mercer County Community
College's Kelsey Theater . . . it is a Tony Award-winning musical
comedy about loving, living and dying that is quite touching
(especially at the end) and that has some beautiful songs.

We particularly liked the orchestra, actually billed as "the teeny-tiny
band" of just three and, also, the work of Kevin J. Gray in the main
role . . . he has a certain presence that just grabs your attention
from the start . . . this is the second time we have seen him in a
show . . . previously, he had wowed us as the narrator in a production
of BLOOD BROTHERS . . . we shall await his next performance!

You're in luck, in that FALSETTOS runs through this coming week
should you be able to see it . . . for more information, please click:
http://www.kelseytheatre.net

B. Friends told us about a bed they just purchased and how
great it was . . . it features an Isotonic mattress that responds
to body shape--one that continually self-adjusts for comfort.

It sounded too good to be true . . . however, since our bed
is only a few years old, we didn't want to buy a new one . . . so
instead we went to Bed, Bath and Beyond and spent under
$200 for a 2-inch mattress pad that seems to do the same
thing; i.e., make our bed even more comfortable . . . for
more information about the product, please click:
http://www.carpenter.com

C. I continue to enjoy reading THE WALL STREET JOURNAL
(see the second part of Section 2 for how you can get a
reduced-rate subscription) . . . yet lately, I've started to
resume reading THE NEW YORK TIMES on a fairly regular
basis and am equally impressed with that publication.

The good news for everybody is that you can now have FREE
online access to the news and opinion columnists of THE
TIMES . . . as the paper notes, "It's free speech that's
free for everyone" . . . all you have to do is click:
http://www.nytimes.com/opinion

Even better, THE TIMES has opened up its vault as well . . . you
can now skip through the archives for TIMES articles going back
to 1851 (excluding the years 1923-1986, which are still part
of the premium archive which you have to pay for; everything
else is available at no cost) . . . to access, please click:
http://www.nytimes.com/archive

This service is sooooo neat . . . plus, you certainly can't
beat the price!

D. THANKS to the many folks who have been asking me about
my mother . . . she is recovering, fairly well, from her latest
hip fracture surgery, and we are doing all that we can to
make her as comfortable as possible . . . we were blessed
to have had her recuperate at Long Island Jewish
Hospital . . . just about everybody was very friendly,
including the staff at the cafeteria (Au Bon Pain) . . . the food
there was excellent, too.

I was especially impressed with the service provided by Diane Powell,
one of the case managers at the hospital . . . she went out of her way
to be of help . . however, there's another individual who also deserves
recognition for his efforts; see below for more information about him.

***** BLAINESWORLD BEST AWARD *****
This week, it goes to Dr. Deyun Yang--a member of the Hospitalist
Team in the Division of General Internal Medicine/Primary Care at
Long Island Jewish Hospital . . . he was the physician most
responsible for my mother,  while at that fine facility, and our
whole family was impressed with his level of care . . . he
expressed a genuine interest in my mother's condition and did all
he could to make her stay as pleasant as possible . . . in addition,
he called me several times to keep me informed of her progress,
and he gave of his time (above and beyond what I've seen from just
about any other doctor I've ever encountered) to speak to both
my brother and me whenever he saw us. 

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2. FYI

N.I.C.E. is a systematic approach for successfully dealing
with all of life's most difficult people without becoming one
of them. It's simple, proven, and applicable to virtually any
type of difficult person and any difficult situation.

The system and how it works:

N--Neutralize your emotions. Dealing with difficult people
can be an emotional challenge. The more emotional you
are, the less rational you behave. Conversely, the more
your emotions are in check, the more you can be in control
of a positive outcome.

I--Identify the type. There are three basic types of difficult
people (and several permutations of each):

* The Situationally Difficult: those people whose situation or
circumstances make them difficult.

* The Strategically Difficult: those people who believe being
unreasonable is effective.

* The Simply Difficult: those people with an ingrained personality
characteristic.

C--Control the encounter. Once you know which type of difficult
individual you face, you can employ the appropriate techniques
to help shape and determine the outcome of the encounter. If
you utilize the right techniques, you can change the fate of deals,
meetings, and everyday confrontations.

E--Explore options. Even after shaping the encounter, you may
still be at an impasse. The process of getting "unstuck" often
requires the development of options-alternative solutions-so
both sides can give and get, (This includes the option of ending
without escalating, reserved for those instances in which the
best deal is no deal, which can preserve the possibility of a future
deal.)

SOURCE:
BULLIIES, TYRANTS & IMPOSSIBLE PEOPLE (see also Sections
4C, 10 and 11) by Ronald M. Shapiro and Mark A. Jankowski

FYI, part 2

* Marilyn in Arizona:
I just finished watching the entire webcast [of Randy Pausch],
and you were correct about the Kleenex . . . I always love a movie
that makes me laugh and cry, and I feel good when I leave the
theater . . . his talk did all of that and its real . . . he is a remarkable
man, and I feel fortunate to have had the opportunity to have seen
this . . . thanks for sharing it; it is something  not to be
missed . . . thanks also for your weekly newsletters.

MY TWO CENTS:
In the unlikely event that you missed the above information in
last week's newsletter, here it is again:

To hear just part of this inspirational presentation, please click:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=4HqdnjgkExY

If you do, though, be forewarned . . . tissues are a MUST.

I'm hopeful that you will then be motivated to want to hear
the entire lecture . . . you can do so by clicking:
http://www.etc.cmu.edu/global_news/?q=node/42

It lasts over one hour, but it will be one of the best hours
you've spent in a long time.

And, lastly, for more information about Pausch (best known to the IT word
for designing a free software system, Alice, that makes it easy for people
to design interactive stories and games), please click:
http://chronicle.com/news/index.php?id=3072

* Maria in Pennsylvania:
Just a quick note that Chilipepper Candles was featured in the
BUCKS COUNTY COURIER today.

Click onto the link below to read the article:
http://www.phillyburbs.com/pb-dyn/news/147-09302007-1415964.html

* Janet in New Jersey:
I have given up my studio space in Woodstock in order to complete
my book. I am in need of healing space and classroom space in both
Woodstock and in NJ.

Several groups are gathering in NJ and one in Woodstock.
I am living in NJ and traveling to Woodstock twice a month.
 
Please let me know if you know of sacred space that I might be
able to rent.in either state.

Also, please listen to the radio programs on my website.

And feel free to catch me at any of the following programs:
 
Healing the spirits of trauma at Mirabai in Woodstock, NY
Thursday, October 18
7-9 p.m.
$15 pre registered; $20 on date
Call 845.679.2100 to reserve your place.
 
Learn to Be Your Own Medical Intuitive
Inspirations Bookstore, Kingston, NY
Saturday November 2
Noon to 2 p.m. 

Please call me at 845.853.9998 for more information on my programs
and/or if you have a locale for me to rent.

And feel free to visit my website:
http://wwww.oasisforthesoul.com

* Kaye in Pennsylvania:
My husband is looking for a typist to type what was translated from 
German into English.  But the translator wrote it and didn't type it. 
Do you know of anybody looking for this type of part-time 
work; i.e., typing from a handwritten manuscript (in English)?

If so, have them email me:
kpaletz@verizon.net

or call 215.355.5722.

Also, I read your newsletter. Very enjoyable!

* Jane in Pennsylvania:
Are you still getting WALL STREET JOURNAL subscriptions? If so,
I would like a one-year subscription if it is less than $99. Please advise.

I enjoy your newsletter and have used many of your tips, particularly
Restaurant.com. and the urban myth site [www.snopes.com].

THE ANSWER TO JANE & OTHERS IS YES!
Should you ever want a reduced-rate subscription, here's all that you
have to do:

Choose your desired term and rate: 15 weeks, $29.95; 26 weeks,
$49.95; or 52 weeks, $99  . . . included is access to the online
edition at no extra charge.

If you'd like to have me enter your subscription, just send
an email to: hughesbr@bucks.edu and put in the subject
line: JOURNAL SUBSCRIPTION.

Include the following information in your email:
Name
City, State, Zip
# of weeks for subscription
Email address
Phone number

You'll then be billed directly by THE JOURNAL.

* Meaghan in Pennsylvania:
I just saw SPRING AWAKENING on Broadway . . . it is described as
barrier-breaking . . . it is amazing!
 
Winner of 8 Tony Awards, including best new musical. 
 
It's one of the most talked about pieces now playing. We lucked out
at the 1/2 price ticket booths and saw the Sunday matinee . . . what
an experience!

For more information on the show, please click:
http://www.springawakening.com/


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3. Meeting times

My friend is a minister, and one Sunday I decided to attend his
worship service. At the end of the sermon, he said, “There will
be a short deacon’s meeting following today’s service.” 

Then came a sly smile as he added, “And the tall deacons will
meet on Monday.”


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4. Reviews

A. You may have to dig to find FEAST OF LOVE, but your effort will
be worth the time . . . this is a small (think non-blockbuster) film
with no special effects, but one with a lot of heart . . . it is a modern
version of A MIDSUMMER NIGHT'S DREAM, wherein a local
professor observes love creating havoc among the town's
residents . . . Morgan Freeman and Gregg Kinnear are
both excellent, as they usually are, in the leading roles . . . the
rest of the ensemble cast shines, too . . . rated R.

B. WILD HOGS is the perfect DVD rental . . . you probably missed
it in the theaters, but if you catch it now, you'll find yourself
laughing out loud--almost in spite of yourself--at this tale of four
guys who hit the open road on their motorcycles . . . John Travolta,
Tim Allen, Martin Lawrence, and William H. Macy are all quite
funny . . . though there's excessive use of stereotyping, I
still got a kick out of much of the film . . . it fell apart at the
very end; however, that said, make sure you stay for the credits
featuring a funny segment featuring Ty Pennington of EXTREME
HOME MAKEOVER . . . rated PG-13.

C. BULLIES, TYRANTS & IMPOSSIBLE PEOPLE (see also
Sections 2, 10 and 11) by Ronald M. Shapiro and Mark A.
Jankowski is a book whose title caught my attention . . . when
I then saw the subtitle--HOW TO BEAT THEM WITHOUT JOINING
THEM--I was hooked with the awareness that this something
that I had to read, because I often find myself having to deal
with folks that might well be considered "difficult" only because
I'm trying to be generous here.

The authors, founders of the Shapiro Negotiations Institute,
bring in many examples that can be applied to life, home
and work situations . . . what's best is that these are
real, coming from such diverse fields as sports, politics,
dining out, and personal relationships, to name just a few.

As I was reading, I kept thinking how Shaprio and
Jankowski made difficult situations seem as if they
could all be handled, such as this one example
involving Phil Jackson when he was coaching the
Chicago Bulls:

He recounted in INC. magazine how his players learned that the best
way to overcome someone who is attacking you, emotionally or
otherwise, is to replace the impulse to strike back with the impulse
to become more focused on the game. Jackson recounted that
when the Bulls played the Detroit Pistons in the late 1980s,
Detroit would win because the Pistons were able to incite the Bulls
into fighting back. It was not until the Bulls learned to control
their "strike-back" impulse that they were able to overcome the
Pistons. As Jackson recalled, "Everybody on our team was
slammed around. . . . Players were tackled, tripped, elbowed,
and smacked in the face. But they all laughed it off. The Pistons
didn't know how to respond. We completely disarmed them by not
striking back. At that moment, our players became true champions."

I gained another valuable tidbit of information when I read about how
Shapiro and Jankowski talked about "writing their press release" . . . they
said:

It can be challenging for most of us to come up with solutions
that allow the other side to save face. Because it's hard to step
outside of ourselves and think like the other side. (Hey, they are
the other side. How could they be right?) One technique we
have used to bridge the gap to their foreign territory is the
exercise of "writing the other side's press release." In other words,
as you come up with options they may find attractive, give
yourself the hypothetical assignment of crafting a statement to
the press that explains why the resolution is a "win" for the other
person, as if you are the other person. Forcing yourself to go
through this exercise will ensure that you frame proposals or
options from a point of view that demonstrates benefit to the
other side. It is rare that you will ever be in a situation in which
you are writing a real (not just hypothetical) press release. But
once it did happen to Ron. He did actually write the press release
to announce the other side's "victory" (which, in reality, he had
shaped and defined on behalf of his client). It's a story that
graphically demonstrates why options work and how to employ
them to get out of a maze filled with apparent impasses.

Lastly, I liked the fact that humor was also used throughout
the book, such as  in this retelling of a famous anecdote about
executives who worked for the infamous banking baron J. P. Morgan:

Morgan was tyrannical. He demanded endless, thankless work from
his cadre of distinguished, educated, highly skilled business
managers. He was notorious for never complimenting, but always
disparaging their efforts, privately and publicly. But he paid
them huge sums of money. When asked why these men
continued to work for the abusive Morgan, one replied,
"He's got us by our limousines."

I don't know if I'll go quite that far in working with others. . . however,
as a result of reading BULLIES, TYRANTS & IMPOSSIBLE PEOPLE,
I will now go out of my way to recommend it to others--particularly
if they deal with such folks on any sort of regular basis.

D. When Princess Diana was alive, I never followed her activities
that closely . . . so listening to THE DIANA CHRONICLES, written
and read by Tina Brown, shed much new light on her life that may
well have been familiar to others.

A lot of this information might be considered trashy, though that's no
surprise since Brown had been a former editor-in-chief of TATTLER,
England's glossiest gossip magazine . . . for instance, I learned
such things as the following:

* On his engagement, when asked if he was in love, Prince Charles
replied, "Yes . . . whatever love means."

* Diana had seen Charles only 17 times before they were married.

* Charles was calling Camilia Parker Bowles, his former girlfriend,
on the second day of his honeymoon.

I also learned much about the clothing worn by Princess Diana,
and though that subject might not typically interest me, I found
myself caught up in it because of Brown's descriptive writing style.

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5. TV alert

A. BETTER HALF is a new series, in which CURB YOUR
ENTHUSIASM's Susie Essman challenges spouses to learn their
significant others' jobs and then compete for $20,000 . . . Wednesdays
at 11 p.m. on BRAVO.

B. 30 ROCK returns for its Season 2 with Jerry Seinfeld on hand
for a less-than-happy reunion with Jack . . . Thursday at 8:30 p.m.
on NBC.

C. LEAVE IT TO BEAVER 5OTH ANNIVERSARY MARATHON
begins at 8 p.m. on Saturday and continues for the next 24 hours
on TV LAND.

D. AUSTIN CITY LIMITS kicks off its 33rd season with Norah
Jones
. . . Saturday at 9 p.m. on PBS . . . check local listings
because PBS times and dates often vary.


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6. Unfaithfulness

A man goes to a shrink and says, "Doctor, my wife is unfaithful to me. 
Every evening, she goes to Larry's bar and picks up men. In fact, she
sleeps with anybody who asks her! I'm going crazy.

"What do you think I should do?"

"Relax," says the Doctor, "take a deep breath and calm down. Now tell
me, exactly where is Larry's bar?"

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7. Websites

A. If you'd like to make professional-looking albums, please click:
http://www.mypublisher.com

You'll be amazed at how simple the process is, as well as how good
your finished product will look.

And if you act soon, you can get advantage of the company's offer
for a FREE album.

B. When in London recently, Cynthia and I saw the musical
BILLY ELLIOT . . . we very much liked it and strongly encourage you to see
it if you live anywhere near London or are there for a visit . . . it is
also slated to open in New York City, sometime next year.

In the meantime, if you can't wait, please click these website
for clips/songs from the show:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QF4lVBZiWR8&mode=related&search

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oi4tJ4i9Y5w&mode=related&search=

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x202YkhKE4o&mode=related&search=

Also, consider renting the charming film of the same name . . . though it's
not a musical, methinks you'll enjoy--much!

C. BLAINESWORLD, the website, remains up and running . . . to view
it, please click:
http://www.blainesworld.net

As you may know, when not teaching, I'm active in the field of dispute
resolution . . . should you be in need of my services as a mediator or
arbitrator, please see the above for more information . . . click
"Dispute Resolution" to the left, then "Background."


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8. Computer tip

Microsoft Word automatically capitalizes the first word of each word
when you press your return key . . . to turn off this and other options
off, to the Tools menu and select "AutoCorrect Options" or
"AutoCorrect" . . . you can turn off automatic capitalization, as well
automatic formatting that turns Internet and email addresses
into live links.

The above works for Word 2003 for Windows and Word 2004 for
Mac . . . to get to the AutoCorrect setting in Word 2007, click
on the Microsoft Office button on the screen and click Word
Options . . . then select Proofing to get to the AutoCorrect
options area.

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9. Letters to God

Little Leroy came into the kitchen where his mother was making dinner.

His birthday was coming up and he thought this was a good time to
tell his mother what he wanted. "Mom, I want a bike for my birthday."
Little Leroy was a bit of a troublemaker. He had gotten into trouble
at school and at home. Leroy's mother asked him if he thought he
deserved to get a bike for his birthday. Little Leroy, of course,
thought he did. Leroy's mother, being a Christian woman, wanted him
to reflect on his behavior over the last year, and write a letter to God
and tell him why he deserved a bike for his birthday. Little Leroy stomped
up the steps to his room and sat down to write God a letter.

LETTER 1:

Dear God:

I have been a very good boy this year and I would like a bike for my
birthday. I want a red one.

Your friend,
Leroy

Leroy knew this wasn't true. He had not been a very good boy this
year, so he tore up the letter and started over.

LETTER 2:

Dear God:

This is your friend Leroy. I have been a pretty good boy this year,
and I would like a red bike for my birthday.

Thank you,
Leroy

Leroy knew this wasn't true either. He tore up the letter and
started again.

LETTER 3:

Dear God:

I know I haven't been a good boy this year. I am very sorry. I will
be a good boy if you just send me a red bike for my birthday.

Thank you,
Leroy

Leroy knew, even if it was true, this letter was not going to get
him a bike. By now, Leroy was very upset.

He went downstairs and told his mother he wanted to go to church.
Leroy's mother thought her plan had worked because Leroy looked very
sad. "Just be home in time for dinner," his mother said.

Leroy walked down the street to the church and up to the altar.
He looked around to see if anyone was there. He picked up a statue
of the Virgin Mary, slipped it under his shirt and ran out of the
church, down the street, into his house, and up to his room. He shut the
door to his room and sat, down with a piece of paper and a pen, and
wrote his letter to God.

LETTER 4:

I GOT YOUR MAMA.

IF YOU WANT TO SEE HER AGAIN, SEND THE BIKE.

Signed,
YOU KNOW WHO!

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10. A quote I like

"Shut Up, Mark, " I say to myself.--Mark A. Jankowski, describing a
technique he uses for changes his physiology in BULLIES, TYRANTS
& IMPOSSIBLE PEOPLE (see also Sections 2, 4C and 11), a book
he coauthored with Ronald M. Shapiro

THE REST OF THE STORY, again quoting Jankowski:
Someone says something provocative to me, and guess what?
It works. I get provoked. Someone challenges. I accept. Someone
yells. I yell back. But I don't always yell back the most persuasive,
brilliant, or effective retort. In other words, I found there were too
many times when I spoke before thinking. I shot from the lip.
And almost immediately afterward, I wished I had buttoned, zipped,
or Velcroed my lip. So I started consciously buttoning it in
advance, the moment a conversation even starts to get the least
bit tense. Whenever my radar senses a challenging situation, my
index finger drifts up to my mouth and comes to rest vertically
across both lips. To anyone else, it just looks like I'm thinking-
which I am. I'm thinking about not saying something stupid
or inflammatory. It makes me literally close my mouth and pause.
Not only am I thinking, but I am also physically reminding myself
to keep my lips closed until I know exactly how I want to
respond. At first I had to remind myself to do it, but now it's
become such a habit that it's an automatic reflex. Someone
challenges. Finger to the lips. I think. Someone yells. Finger to
the lips. Then I respond. And I don't regret what I say (as much).

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11. Thought for the day 

The guilt trip

You're driving along in your two-seater car on a windy, wet,
cold, stormy night. Lightning flashes. Thunder crashes.
Large dogs are blown across the highway like newspapers.
You can barely navigate your way safely through this monsoon
when you spot three people huddled at an unsheltered bus
stop, shivering, soaking wet, waiting for what is obviously a
very, very late bus. Through your overworked windshield wipers,
you can ascertain the following: that Person 1 is a frail, aged
lady who looks as if she is about to be swept away by the
storm or, at the very least, come down with pneumonia; that
Person 2 is an old and dear friend who once saved your life;
and that Person 3 is that once-in-lifetime man or woman who,
up to now, you have only seen in your dreams.

Which one would you choose to offer a ride, knowing that
there can only be one passenger in your car (and why didn't
you buy that minivan)? What are your options?

1. Choose the elderly lady, the one who is most in jeopardy to
survive the night (but risk upsetting your lifelong friend and
miss out on the chance to meet your one and only soul mate).

2. Pick your friend because he did once save your life and you
vowed someday to repay him (but then you'll endure the eternal
guilt of worrying that the fragile matron died, not to mention
the anxiety of leaving the man/woman of your dreams stranded
in the storm only to get a ride from the next passing potential
soul mate).

3. You could follow your romantic instinct (cue the violins) and
open your door (and your heart) to your true soul mate
(while coldly turning your back on the defenseless old lady
and your former best friend, now your newest enemy).

So there is no right answer, right? What do you do when
confronted with a situation when none of the options seem
to work, when, no matter what you do, you do the wrong
thing? Answer: Create another option. Create an option
outside of the three obvious options. Maybe there are four.
or five or six. Like what? Here's just one more idea:

4. Give your car keys to your old (trusted, reliable, lifesaving,
safe-driving) friend, and let him drive the lady home or to the
nearest hospital to make sure she's all right.

Then you could stay behind, enduring the frigid gales,
torrential rains, and lightning bolts, alongside the man or
woman of your dreams. What better way to get to bond
with your soul mate than by braving the elements, huddled
side by side, hand in hand, cheek to check…Well, you can
take it from here.

While not immediately evident, this is a creative option that
accommodates all of the people in the story. Instead of the
expected solutions that, at best, have one winner and two
losers, this option actually has three winners (or four,
counting you). Did you come up with an option of your own
before we got to ours? Did you think outside the confines
of the expected and find a solution that served all three
people without alienating one or two? There are actually
countless possible ways to solve this dilemma, but they all
require breaking the bounds of conventional thinking.

SOURCE:
BULLIIES, TYRANTS & IMPOSSIBLE PEOPLE (see also
Sections 2, 4C and 10) by Ronald M. Shapiro and
Mark A. Jankowski, a book I REALLY liked as evidenced
by the fact that I have now cited it four separate times
in this week's newsletter

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12. Advance planning department

A. Cynthia in New Jersey (see also Section 1A): 
JourneyDance/Move Your Body is a transformative, freeing movement
experience.  Using inspiring music from around the world, you are softly
led into easy-to-follow movements.  At times, you follow, you move
intuitively on your own or you may choose to lead only if you are
comfortable. You honor yourself and what you need in the moment. 

Please feel free to join me at either or both of the following:
* Franklin Adult Community Education
 
6 weeks . . . Tuesdays  . . . Oct. 2, 9, 16, 23, 30; Nov. 6, 13, 20
Time:  6:30 - 7:45
Place:  Elizabeth Avenue School Gym, Somerset, NJ
 
Price:  $40.00 for all sessions
 
To register: Contact me for registration forms . . . you can reach me
via 609.731.0808 or via email:   

* Day for All Women
Bucks County Community College, Newtown, PA
November 3
1:05-2:35  p.m.

In addition, there are many other excellent sessions . . . for more
information and/or to register, please click:
http://www.bucks.edu/dfaw/

B. Earl in Pennsylvania:
This is an open invitation to join the last harvest of the year at the
Wycombe Vineyards.

About 50 people are needed. If you bring children, please watch them
carefully as there will be equipment in use that could be dangerous.

Wycombe Vineyards hand picks all grapes at their location in
Bucks County, PA.

When:
Saturday, October 6
A BBQ follows the harvest as thanks for your help!

Where:
Wycombe Vineyards
1391 Forest Grove Road
Furlong, PA


If you own garden shears or kitchen scissors, please bring them.

For more information, please visit:
http://www.wycombevineyards.com/index.html

If interested in helping, please RSVP to:
info@wycombevineyards.com

Include the following information:
Name, number of people, phone number, any food preferences
(e.g., vegetarian). 

C. Mike in Pennsylvania:
Several weeks ago, the County Commissioners asked me
to co-chair "Save Bucks County," a coalition of people throughout
the County organized to help pass the Bucks County Open
Space Bond Referendum. 

Voters will decide this November 6th whether to build on the successes
of the open space program I began in 1997. 

As many of you are well aware of my commitment to protecting our
environment, I was excited for the opportunity.

I need your help. I am raising funds to help educate voters on the
importance of smart growth and protecting open space.   

I hope that you can make a donation by clicking:
http://www.savebuckscounty.org

or support a fundraising event I am coordinating on October 7th.
If you would like to participate in my event on October 7th, email me back:
mfitzpatrick@savebuckscounty.org

and I will get you involved.

I appreciate any support you can give and I hope that you will "Vote Yes"
at the polls this Election Day!

D. Joan in Pennsylvania:
Please join me at my table for the YWCA of Bucks County's
15th annual Breakfast with Friends--Celebrating Success
(formerly Breakfast for Women by Women).

Thursday, November 15
7:30-9:00 a.m.

King's Caterers
4010 New Falls Road, Bristol

Featuring Keynote Speaker Dr. Yvonne Kaye, noted humorist, author
and lecturer, along with YWCA program participants sharing personal
success stories

If interested, please contact Joan Weiss for more information:
weissj@bucks.edu

All proceeds benefit programs and services provided by the YWCA
of Bucks County

Guests are invited to bring to the breakfast donations of diapers, wipes,
formula and NEW baby clothes to support needy families in Bucks County.

Free Door Prizes!  

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PS. Please join me in praying that we soon get our remaining soldiers
back from Iraq and that peace resumes in Israel . . . also, make it
a great week!

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