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BLAINESWORLD #688 12.7.2009 In this issue: 1. Reflections 2. FYI 3. My favorite Christmas decorations, Part 1 4. Reviews . . . BROTHERS, etc. 5. TV alert 6. My favorite Christmas decorations, Part 2 7. Websites (including Parts 3 and 4 of my favorite Christmas decorations) 8. Computer tip 9. My favorite Christmas decorations, part 5 10. A quote I like 11. Thought for the day 12. Advance planning department _________________________________________________________ 1. Reflections A. Cynthia, my beautiful bride, and I joined our friend Tammy to see the second to last performance of THE HALLELUJAH GIRLS at the Asheville Community Theatre . . . it's
a delightful comedy about four women who at the funeral of a friend, decide to stop drifting
and make something of themselves by doing what makes them happy . . . in this case,
it involves converting an old church into the Spa-Dee-Dah! Day Salon.
Everybody in the case was excellent . . . however, in particular, I liked the work of
Rhonda Parker who dons various costumes as she sings a song for every conceivable
holiday . . . Joan Atwood also had us in stitches, especially in one scene where
she lost her voice.
Though you won't be able to see this particular show, do catch other productions
at this theatre . . . we've enjoyed everything we have seen there . . . for news
of what's upcoming, please click:
B. We also got to attend the ribbon cutting ceremony of Asheville 4 Seasons
Realty . . . Suzanne Smith, our friend and favorite local realtor, has opened this
office with Susan Lodato . . . it's located at 4 Sulphur Springs Road, just off
Haywood Road; 828.225.6911.
There was plenty of good food, including BBQ from 12 Bones; music; friendship, etc.,
and we are both hopeful--make that convinced--that Suzanne will succeed
in her latest venture.
I will tell you this: You won't go wrong if you work with Suzanne Smith as your realtor!
C. If you're like me, you celebrate ALL holidays . . . that way there's more
food and great presents, as well as time with loved ones and friends . . . furthermore,
for a fun holiday activity that can be enjoyed by the entire family, drive around
your neighborhood to conduct your own contest to determine the best Christmas
decorations . . . . I've tried to help in this issue by pointing out several homes
that caught my attention.
However, I have also tried to be fair to my Jewish readers by giving justice
to that holiday as well . . . so make sure you see Sections 7 and the PS
after Section 12.
I truly believe that the more we learn about and appreciate the cultures of others,
the more we can all pull together to make this country--and world, too--an even
better place than it already is.
D. CONGRATULATIONS to Bill Lewis . . . as to why, I quote his lovely wife Diane:
I want to let everyone know that Bill passed his driving test today with hand
controls! What an accomplishment for him. I cried like a baby. I am so proud of him.
He has come such a long way from 8.10.2008!
GIVING CREDIT WHERE CREDIT IS DUE:
I am proud of the role that I played in helping with the above . . . after all, I was
the guy who sent him this video that undoubtedly helped him with the parking
requirement:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VyFnFPcqrAw
***** BLAINESWORLD BEST AWARD ***** This week, it goes to Art Finkle--a longtime friend and an Advanced Practitioner Mediator (as designated by the Association for Conflict Resolution). In addition, he is rostered by the Mediation Works Incorporated Panel of Employment Mediators. During the past year, he has published two books: Intervention in the Workplace: Federal Laws Touching the Workplace http://tinyurl.com/ntndzb Thought Teasers Workbook: Landmark Employment Caselaw http://tinyurl.com/lzmnna In addition, he has had seven articles published: “The Americans With Disabilities Act of 1990: Securing Non-discrimination for those with Disabilities in the Workplace,” International Personnel Management Association – Human Resources, http://www.ipma-hr.org/. March 2009. “COBRA, 2009,” International Personnel Management Association--Human Resources, April 2008, http://www.ipma-hr.org/. March 2009 “Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA),” International Personnel Management Association--Human Resources, http://www.ipma-hr.org/. March 2009. “Ethics in Government,” International Personnel Management Association-– Human Resources, April 2008, http://www.ipma-hr.org/. March 2009. “Creativity: Lifeblood of a Mediator,” Advanced Practitioner Mediators.http://groups.yahoo.com/group/APMediator/message/20. Accessed February 8, 2009. “A Mediation Primer, Part 1,” HR News, International Personnel Management Association--Human Resources, April 2008, p 15-27. “A Mediation Primer, Part 2,” HR News, International Personnel Management Association – Human Resources, May 2008, p 26-38. He has done this while also teaching part-time at Empire State, Kean University and ITT . . . and maintaining the following Shofar Sounders website: http://shofar221.com/ For more information about any of the above, your best bet is to contact Art directly via email: afinkle221@yahoo.com. _________________________________________________________ 2. FYI If you're a new home buyer . . . or even if you already have a home . . . you
may well qualify for the 2010 extension of the stimulus package . . . THANKS to Marilynne in North Carolina for sharing this information . . . as she notes: Cyndi [her sister] passed along some interesting news today re: $6,500 tax credit for new home owners. I ran it past my accountant in NY this morning, and he said I qualify. And if I qualify, you must also. We can thank Barack for this. Here's the link for more information: http://tinyurl.com/calmro ALAS: I don't qualify, in that I bought my Asheville home shortly before this kicked-in . . . however, perhaps you can use this information . . . and if not, feel free to forward it to your children, grandchildren and friends . . . your neighbors might be interested as well, especially if you want them to move! FYI, part 2
* Josephine in Las Vegas (with a REQUEST FOR HELP):
We have some financial challenges ahead of us. I'm wondering if you have
any recommendations regarding some type of financial counselor/consultant
that perhaps we could talk to. The consumer credit counseling service could
not help us since I don't make enough money for its 5-year payoff plan.
* Ruth in Pennsylvania We did it! The challenge was to create a 3-7 minute film of professional peace makers and have it And voila! You can watch it by clicking: * Steve in Pennsylvania: You will love this link to this article about my mom, the grandmother of invention: http://www.inc.com/topic/Experience+Works+Inc. * Ken in New York: How can anyone write a review about PIRATE RADIO without mentioning Leonard Cohen's
"So Long, Marianne?" I'm aghast.
IN MY DEFENSE:
I now do remember the song in the movie, but for some inexplicable reason, it never made
it to the soundtrack.
* Christina in North Carolina: Forgive me for sending this to you, but this is important legislation that is being introduced by U.S. Rep. George Miller, D-California, chairman of the House Education and Labor
Committee and the chairman of the House Democratic Policy Committee. U.S. Rep. Cathy
McMorris Rodgers, R-Washington, is a member of the House Education and Labor Committee
and vice chairman of the House Republican Conference. A bipartisan effort!
If you believe this is an important new law that would train teachers, limit restraint and provide oversight please contact your representative in support of the bill. Or click:
* Joe in Las Vegas (with an excellent article he has written on enhancing your career):
* Andy in Pennsylvania:
Buy one Comedy Cabaret gift certificate - YOU get one FREE. YOU JUST SAVED $40
This is a limited time offer.
* You need to order before Dec. 18th. * You must type in the words 'E Special' in the comments box to receive this offer. Easy to order - here is the link - order now: * Natalie in Pennsylvania:
I was a featured guest on LIVE YOUR PEACE. To listen to the interview, please click:
* Debbi in New Jersey: The newest virus circulating is the UPS/Fed Ex Delivery Failure. You will receive an email from UPS/Fed Ex Service along with a packet number. It will say that they were unable to deliver
a package sent to you on such-and-such a date. It then asks you to print out the invoice copy
attached. DON'T TRY TO PRINT THIS. IT LAUNCHES THE VIRUS! Pass this warning on to all
your PC operators at work and home. This virus has caused millions of dollars in damage in
the past few days.
UPDATE:
If this looks familiar, it is because it is . . . the virus circulated last year and is
back . . . for more information, here's what Snopes has to say about it:
http://www.snopes.com/computer/virus/ups.asp
_________________________________________________________ 3. My favorite Christmas decorations, Part 1 This one is especially great if you're in the search for a cheap way
to decorate for the holidays. Make sure you look at the house
to the right.
![]() _________________________________________________________ 4. Reviews A. Do try to see BROTHERS, a powerful drama about two brothers . . . one
of them gets sent to Afghanistan and when his plane is shot down, he
is presumed dead . . . I'm still revisiting in my mind some of the scenes
from the film . . . they'll live with me for quite some time, as will the performances
by both Tobey Maguire and Jake Gyllenhaal in the leading roles . . . though
not specifically an anti-war film, I do think that if you see it, you'll rethink
the wisdom of sending even one American soldier to war in any
foreign country . . . rated R.
AN INVITE:
Shortly after I saw the above, I read an excellent op-ed piece about the war in
Afghanistan . . . written by Thomas L. Friedman, it got me thinking some
more about the subject . . . you will, too, if you take the time to read what
he has to say.
B. JULIE & JULIA is now out in DVD format . . . my review from BLAINESWORLD #657 follows: JULIE & JULIA is almost a great movie . . . it's a comedy/
biopic about Julia Child and the woman who attempts to recreate all her recipes--and blog about them . . . Meryl Streep is fantastic as Child; methinks she deserve at least another Oscar nomination for her performance . . . Stanley Tucci, as always, was great in a supporting role . . . Amy Adams was cute as Julie; however, her part of the film was just not as strong as the other part . . . rated PG-13. C. OPEN by Andre Agassi is probably the best tennis
book I have ever read . . . though considering the fact that I haven't read too many other tennis books (maybe just one other), that's not saying much . . . so I'll amend that statement to say that it was one of the best sports books I have ever read. It's a gripping account of the tennis star's life that had me hooked from the very first page . . . there's some dirt in it, of course; e.g., about his use of crystal meth that cost him his No. 1 ranking . . . yet some of the stuff that's revealed is actually funny, such as his account of the problems with the wig he wore to hide his premature baldness. I was also surprised to learn how his father worked him so hard as a youngster: * My father says that if I hit 2,500 balls each day, I'll hit 17,500 balls each week, and at the end of one year I'll have hit nearly one million balls. He believes in math. Numbers, he says, don't lie. A child who hits one million balls each year will be unbeatable. Yet, by far, OPEN most came alive when Agassi described in amazing detail how he thought about actually playing the sport (he actually hated most of his life): * I'm winning more often. I should be happy. Instead I'm uptight, because it’s over. I've enjoyed a triumphant hard-court season, my body wants to keep playing on hard courts, but clay season is starting. The sudden switch from one surface to another changes everything. Clay is a different game, thus your game must become different, and so must your body. Instead of sprinting from side to side, stopping short and starting, you must slide and lean and dance. Familiar muscles now play supporting roles, dormant muscles dominate. It’s painful enough, under the best of circumstances, that I don't know who I am. To suddenly become a different person, a clay person, adds another degree of frustration and anxiety. And the vivid accounts of his battles with such tennis greats as Jimmy Connor's, Pete Sampras and Roger Federer had me feeling almost as if I was on the court, right beside him . . . for example, there was this description of a match he had with Xavier Malisse from Belgium: * He moves admirably well and has slingshot of an arm. He features a meaty forehand and an acing serve, but he’s not consistent. Also, his backhand is mediocre: it looks as if it should be great because he’s so comfortable hitting it, but he’s more interested in the way it looks than actually executing it. He simply cannot hit a backhand up the line, and if you can't do that, you can't beat me. I control the court too well. If you can't hit a backhand up the line, I'll dictate every point. An opponent has to move me, stretch me off the mark, put me in a position where I'm dealing with him, or else he'll have to play on my terms. And my terms are harsh. Especially as I get older. The book concludes with an account of what did happen to Agassi as he grew older and eventually retired from competitive tennis . . . I was touched how he has turned to philanthropy, and I was also gladdened to read of the happiness he has found with his second wife (Stefanie Graf). D. I heard MAESTRO by Bob Woodward . . . it's the account of Alan
Greenspan's role as chairman of the Federal Reserve from 1987 2000. Though the book was not about a subject that I ordinarily would seek out, I found it quite interesting . . . in addition, I was appreciative of the fact that it explained economics in a way that I could understand too. What I liked best about it, however, was the fact that I got to understand Greenspan's role as a maestro . .. though he ruled by consensus, he did so with a firm hand that was able to get support from both political parities in what were some very turbulent times. I also got a kick out the story behind his proposal to his wife . . . it turns out the he had to propose twice to her, the violinist-turned-TV news star Andrea Mitchell, before she understood that: * His verbal obscurity and caution were so ingrained that Mitchell didn't even know that he had asked her to marry him. And this account of how Greenspan made decisions was most insightful: * It turns out that for all his awesome knowledge of monetary minutiae, the Fed chief literally relies on "a pain in the pit of my stomach" to make decisions. "At times, he found his body sensed danger before his head," writes Woodward. The Fed chief also adapts Einstein's technique to economics, hunting for discrepancies as keys to deeper theories. Actor James Naughton handled the narration duties . . . his familiar voice added to my enjoyment of the book, _________________________________________________________ 5. TV alert A. BAM MARGERA PRESENTS: WHERE THE #$&% IS SANTA? airs
on Friday at 10 p.m. on MTV . . . the JACKASS alum assembles his
motley crew and heads to the Arctic Circle in search of the big guy.
B. CHRISTMAS IN CANAAN stars Billy Ray Cyrus as a widower
who devises an unconventional plan to ease the tension between his son and
a neighborhood boy . . . Kenny Rogers wrote the story . . . Saturday
at 8 p.m. on HALLMARK.
C. THE PEOPLE SPEAK is a 90-minute civil-rights documentary, inspired
by the books of historian Howard Zinn . . . Matt Damon is the executive
producer and is one of the voices . . . he is joined by such others as
Morgan Freeman, John Legend, Sean Penn, Pink and Bruce
Springsteen . . . Sunday at 8 p.m. on HISTORY.
D. If you miss Michael Jackson, then you will perhaps want to check out
THE JACKSONS: A FAMILY DYNASTY . . . it follows the remaining
Jackson brothers as they deal with the loss of their brother . . . this new reality show premieres on Sunday at 9 p.m. on A&E.
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6. My favorite Christmas decorations, Part 2 Unfortunately, the guy who came up with this idea was
once again disqualified from his neighborhood's "Best
Decorated House" due to his bad attitude!
![]() _________________________________________________________ 7. Websites A. My favorite Christmas decorations, Part 3
Just imagine this family's electrical bill!
B. My favorite Christmas decorations, Part 4
What a great idea; i.e., to get the whole family (including
pets) into the act . . . for some reason, though, I doubt that
our cats would be too interested in such an activity.
C. BLAINESWORLD, the website, remains up and running . . . to view it, please click: http://www.blainesworld.net With all this talk about Christmas decorations, I'd be remiss if I didn't
give at least some consideration to the Jewish holiday of Chanukah (see also the
PS. after Section 12) . . . this wintertime Festival of Lights, which celebrates
religious freedom, begins at sunset on Friday and runs through December 19.
Writing the above got me thinking that I once addressed--in a previous issue
sometime last year--the very heady topic of what is the correct way to spell the
holiday . . . I typically use Chanukah, but many others use Hanukah . . . in
fact, I found out that there are actually 16 different spellings that are used . . . but
where, oh where, did I write that?
So in search of an answer, I checked the handy archives that can be found on the left
of the homepage (click Newsletter, then Past Issues) . . . I knew that what I
originally wrote had to appear sometime around the same time as this year;
hence, I was quickly able to find BLAINESWORLD #637 and the link
that I was seeking:
http://joemaller.com/2005/12/21/sixteen-ways-to-spell-hanukkah/ _________________________________________________________ 8. Computer tip Imagine watching all your favorite TV shows online; i.e., if you want to do so (personally, I still prefer my big screen TV) . . . there's now a website that operates like a digital TV GUIDE: http://www.clicker.com/
According to THE WALL STREET JOURNAL, "If you spend a lot of time in front of your computer and find yourself searching all over the Web for the TV shows you'd like to watch, Clicker will be a huge help. And even if your show isn't available, you might find something similar--or better--in Clicker's recommendations." You can even create your own playlist to let you save shows to watch now or later. _________________________________________________________ 9. My favorite Christmas decorations, part 5 From a guy who wishes to remain anonymous:
Good news is that I truly outdid myself this year with my Christmas
decorations. See below for what I put up:
![]() The bad news is that I had to take them down after two days,
even though I had more people coming up to my house than
ever.
First, the cops advised me that it would cause traffic accidents as many
cars almost crashed as they drove by.
Second, a 55-year old lady grabbed the 75-pound ladder and almost killed
herself putting it against my house. She didn't realize the guy was fake until
she climbed to the top. (She was not a happy camper.) By the way, she
was one of the many who attempted to do that. My yard couldn't take it
either. I have more than a few tire tracks where people literally drove up
my garden.
_________________________________________________________ 10. A quote I like You can take no credit for beauty at sixteen. But if you are beautiful at sixty, it will be your own soul's doing--Marie Stopes (1880-1958), Scottish author, palaeobotanist, campaigner for women's rights and pioneer in the field
of family planning _________________________________________________________ 11. Thought for the day When Chris Spielman suffered a brutal neck injury, he said overcoming it was a breeze
compared to most everything his wife Stefanie had faced. When her hair started falling out,
when clumps of it began landing on the floor and in their toddler's hands, Chris decided
to shave his own head, a soldier in solidarity. When it became apparent that more
chemotherapy and a mastectomy--breast cancer's evil twins--were high on Stefanie's
schedule, Chris bid a temporary farewell to the NFL, skipping an entire year so he could
be with the woman he proposed to on the 18th hole of a Putt-Putt course.
For the rest of the story, please click:
PLEASE NOTE:
Do read this story even if you're not a football fan . . . methinks you'll be moved by it.
_________________________________________________________ 12. Advance planning department A. Marie in New Jersey:
See and hear Neil Foglio, Pharm. D. Candidate, perform with the prestigious Rutgers
Symphony Orchestra THIS FRIDAY NIGHT! Catch Neil while you can! The Holiday Pops
concert is a first and not to be missed! Support NJ's Arts Conservatory and my
favorite Bassist!
For more information, please click:
B. Cathy in Pennsylvania (with a list of holiday peace events planned by the Princeton regional
office and several of our chapters:
On Friday, December 11, CFPA's South Jersey affiliate is co-sponsoring a Peace Vigil
from 5:30-6:30 PM in Woodstown, NJ.
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Next Tuesday, December 15, our CFPA Regional Office is having our annual 5 PM Vigil at Palmer
Square, 6 PM Potluck and 7:00 PM Peace Concert at Nassau Presbyterian Church, 61 Nassau
Street (right across from Palmer Square in Princeton). The Vigil will feature a large sign with the
message, "President Obama: Fulfill the Promise of Peace." All CFPA/peace supporters throughout
the region are urged to come.
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Finally, on Monday, December 28, CFPA's South Jersey affiliate is co-sponsoring a Peace Vigil
starting at 1:30 PM and going until after dark at the Monument in Atlantic City, NJ. The Vigil will
be led by high school students.
For more information, please click:
C. Cyndy in Pennsylvania:
MONTHLY DRUM AND SOUND HEALING CIRCLES
December, January and February
We will focus our heart and our intent on the qualities and teachings of the Winter during
the upcoming winter session of circles. Our personal cycles are much like what you see
on the earth. We are getting ready to go within . . ..into the delicious dark. Letting go of what
is no longer needed or no longer empowers us in order to energize that which will burst forth
in the light of Spring. Each cycle of the seasons provides much for us two-leggeds to learn.
I invite you to join us in this cycle of power. All are welcome and newcomers are honored. If you
have a frame drum, bring it. If not, loaners are available. ABSOLUTELY NO EXPERIENCE
IS NEEDED.
Come drum, dance, chant, journey, experience healing sounds and CIRCLE WITH SOULS
ON A SPIRITUAL PATH OF SELF DISCOVERY . . . come:
December 11, 2009
January 15, 2010
January 29, 2010
February 12, 2010
February 26, 2010
All circles meet from 6:30-9:30 p.m. and are followed by a bit of social time if you can stay.
Energy Exchange $30.00.
December 19, 2009
from 6:30-9:30 p.m.
During our evening, you will be introduced to the ancient ways of the shaman. Journeying can
serve as powerful support for the many of the experiences we go through in our lives. As you
follow the heartbeat of the drum, you will learn the techniques to enter the shamanic state
of consciousness where we seek guidance, insight and healing. As humans all over the Earth
have done for millennia, we will journey to remember our connection to the Earth Mother and
all of her creatures.
Journeying is an excellent way to renew your relationship with Spirit and your own soul's gifts
as well as strengthen the power of your intuition.
Join us as we explore the oldest known healing modality on the planet. We will use the ancient
process of shamanic journey to discover our power animals and to gain insight about our earth
walk at this time on the planet.
Energy Exchange $50.00.
For more information please visit: D. Sally in North Carolina:
I'm inviting you to:
WHAT: Open House for the Decorative Arts Program at AB Tech
WHERE: Ivy Building on the Main Campus of AB Tech
WHEN: Sunday, December 13, from 2-4 p.m.
We are in the final week of school and getting spiffed up to show off what we have learned.
I hope you can come see what I have spent the past year doing!
The Ivy Building is off Victoria Rd. on the main campus of AB Tech. Once you turn onto
Victoria (from either Biltmore Ave. or Meadow off Amboy Rd.) follow the signs to the Pines
Building. Ivy is the large red brick building directly across from Pines. Let me know if you
need more specific directions.
Hope to see you there!
_________________________________________________________ PS. Happy Chanukah to all those who want to make it so . . . and to get you in the mood, there's this catchy tune penned by of Sen, Orrin G. Hatch--Republican who's
also Mormon:
THE REST OF THE STORY:
The above song first (performed by Rasheeda Azar) appeared on TABLET, an
online magazine of Jewish lifestyle and culture . . . known around the Senate
as a prolific writer of Christian hymns and patriotic melodies, Hatch, 75, said this
was his first venture into Jewish music. It will not be his last.
“Anything I can do for the Jewish people, I will do,” he said in an interview before heading to the Senate floor to debate an abortion amendment. “Mormons believe
the Jewish people are the chosen people, just like the Old Testament says.”
To read more, please click:
In addition, see Section 7C for more information on the holiday.
Also, please join me in praying that we soon get our remaining soldiers back
from Iraq and Afghanistan , , , and that peace comes to Israel and her
neighbors. . . make it a great week, too!
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