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BLAINESWORLD ![]() B. Our good friend Michael called the other day to see how
we were doing . . . he said, "I bet that everyday is like Saturday," and come to think of it, he was right . . . Cynthia and I sometimes have to pause to think about what day it actually is, which is quite a nice thing. His comment got me thinking to something my mother used to say about her life in Florida . . . she would often tell me that it was like living in Disney World, not only because of the weather . . . but also because there was so much for her and my father to do and see. That's sort of how Cynthia and I are feeling right now . . . we're enjoying the weather . . . it usually is the same as in the New Jersey/Pennsylvania area, though with slightly milder winters and summers . . . that said, we were particularly fortunate to have temperatures in the 60s when the Northeast was hit with recent snow and ice storms. As for things to do, we have been pretty busy just getting our house into shape . . . making our job much easier, however, was the assistance provided by Jim Foley--owner of More Space Place . . . he designed a series of closets and storage areas that left us pleasantly surprised with the recognition that we have more than enough space for all our stuff. We're still laughing at how Jim found us extra space in the master bath . . . he suggested putting a cabinet above the toilet . . . quite frankly, we had our doubts about that one; i.e., until Jim drew a computer image of somebody using the toilet that showed there was plenty of space above the person's head. The installation--completed when we were still in New Jersey--was perfect . . . what a rarity it was to find a company that you didn't have to call back for corrections after the fact. We were so impressed with this job that we have already begun speaking with Jim about the possibility of getting a Murphy Bed/bookcase for our guest bedroom. What makes the experience in dealing with More Space Place so pleasurable is that Jim's a real nice guy, too . . . when we stopped by his place to thank him for a job well done, he gave us a warm greeting that made us feel like we were his longtime friends (and not just his customers). For more information, call 828.665.9665 or please click: http://customclosetsasheville.com/index.html C. Fortunately, we have also managed to discern that we won't go hungry in North Carolina . . . there are many eateries near us, many just minutes away . . . two we have enjoyed were: * Apollo Flame Bistro (828.665.0080), located in the same strip mall as More Space Place . . . they serve both Italian and Greek food . . . Cynthia said her Greek salad was excellent, and I very much enjoyed my chicken wrap served on warm pita bread . . . portions were large, prices were reasonable and service was good. * Kanpai Sushi Tai in downtown Asheville (828.225.8885) . . . our order of steamed vegetables was made just the way we wanted it; i.e., add snow peas and don't include mushrooms . . . however, the dish we're still raving about was the coconut fried rice with chicken . . . per our request, they made it with brown rice . . . the end result was something so tasty that we're looking forward to when we can have the leftovers. D. MR. CURIOUS HERE: Cynthia has some 10 cassette tapes on yoga that are close to having seen their final day . . . plus, she'd like to play them on her CD player . . . do you know of any easy, inexpensive way to convert these cassettes to CDs? Or might you even be willing to do this for her? (She'd pay you for your effort.) We've seen a device that can do this . . . and also convert vinyl records . . . but it costs some $300, and we have no real need for it beyond this one-time use. Please advise. ***** BLAINESWORLD BEST AWARD ***** This week, it goes to Dr. Scott Pickett--our new veterinarian in North Carolina Dr. Pickett heads the Best Friends Mobile Veterinarian Clinic in Asheville, which he started with his brother Stewart in 2005 . . . what makes his practice so unique is that you never have to go see him; instead, he comes directly to your home or business in a modern van that is fully-equipped to handle just about any situation. Shortly after arriving, we needed to get all three cats checked . . . we were particularly concerned about Shanti, in that we had been told by our previous vet that she had a suspicious-looking growth on her jaw . . . Dr. Pickett confirmed that it was cancer, but for now, all appears to be stable . . . he said that our other two cats, Precious and Tiger, were both in fine shape. We were impressed by how thorough an exam Dr. Pickett conducted on each cat . . . also, we were appreciative of how quickly he got back to us with results, suggestions for future care, etc. And Stewart, who serves as technician/office manager for Best Friends, was equally caring. For more information, please click: http://www.bestfriendsmobilevet.com/Aboutus.html Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 2. FYI As many readers know, I'm a regular reader/big fan of THE WALL STREET JOURNAL . . . it is so very informative, and I find that I learn much from reading it--not only about business, but also about politics, computers, entertainment, etc. Health is another topic covered extensively by THE JOURNAL . . . one recent article, in particular, caught my attention: "Face Time: the Benefits of Seeing Patients as People" by Kevin Helliker, 12.2.2008, p. B9 . . . because of copyright restrictions, I can't run the whole article . . . however, here's the key part that I'd like you to consider: Radiologists read scans more carefully when they also had a patient photo, a study found. Here are some suggestions: * Bring a photo to your scan or email one to the scanning center and ask that it be included in your file. * Photographs aside, provide the clinic with detailed reasons why you're getting a scan. Dr. Turner [the person who did the study] predicts that further study will bear out the power of the old-fashioned head shot to improve radiology. Included in his presentation were comments from radiologists who participated in the study. One said the inclusion of photographs "made me feel more like a physician." Another said a photograph "makes each CT scan unique." SPECIAL OFFER: If you're a student at Bucks County Community College or some other school . . . or want to enter a subscription in your son or daughter's name (and they're a student), please click: http://subscribe.wsj.com/semester You'll be taken to a form where you can directly sign-up for 15 weeks up to a year at the guaranteed lowest rate; i.e., at 70% off regular rates . . . you also get FREE online access . . . when they ask for professor, put down "Greenfield, Blaine" and if you have any problems, give a holler. FYI, part 2 Last week, I wrote about a product called Magic Eraser . . . I don't think I have ever received so many emails about any other particular topic . . . just to cite some of them: * Robyn in Pennsylvania: I just wanted to let you know that I've used the Magic Sponge several times. So far I've been able to completely remove: Sharpie marker, crayon, and pencil stains off countertops. All sorts of scuff marks off hardwood floors such as shoes, crayons, markers and some I couldn't identify. Light soap scum off the bottom of vinyl shower curtain liners. Those orange marks around the drain in the shower and sink. Burnt marks off a stovetop, both electric and gas. Dirt off the refrigerator, microwave and dishwasher, including the handles. Food and drink stains on countertops. Light scuff marks or food stains on the walls. All sorts of artwork left on the walls by the kids such as crayon, marker, pencil, etc. I love how it cleans without having to use irritating chemicals on minor stains. The only warning I have is to check a small unnoticeable area on a wall before working on stains for the first time. I've discovered that the sponge can remove some types of paint. I've also discovered that if a drink stain has been on a countertop, it will lighten but not completely remove it. The same goes for heavy marks on the walls and well-set burnt marks on the stove. * Dana in Pennsylvania: It IS the best product out there to remove marks on painted walls, corian countertops and other hard surfaces. Just beware, it is like a fine sander so use with water and do not rub continually over the same area for a long time or you will remove your paint. * Terri in Pennsylvania: It should be called "Miracle Eraser." This product is awesome. I have not yet found a stain it doesn't remove! * Arlene in Missouri: I use Magic Eraser to remove smudges from refrigerator handles. It works well on white refrigerators especially. * Kathy in Florida: Magic Eraser is absolutely wonderful. I use it all the time. SECOND REQUEST: I also mentioned that I need to redo my business cards, given that the important phone numbers I have on the back will soon be outdated when Obama takes over from Bush . . . furthermore, I will only be full-time at Bucks County Community College for one more semester, so I'm looking for some other title to call myself--other than professor or even professor emeritus. My goal is to come up with something creative that would also serve as a conversation-starter when I meet new folks. MANY THANKS to the many readers who already submitted their thoughts on the subject . . . I'll share some of these with you in the near future, but in the meantime, I would still very much like to hear from others who care to care to express their opinion on this weighty topic. Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 3. Wisdom from kids No matter how hard you try, you can't baptize cats. When your mom is mad at your dad, don't let her brush your hair. If your sister hits you, don't hit her back. They always catch the second person. Never ask your 3-year old brother to hold a tomato. You can't trust dogs to watch your food. Reading what people write on desks can teach you a lot. Don't sneeze when someone is cutting your hair. Puppies still have bad breath even after eating a Tic Tac. Never hold a dustbuster and a cat at the same time. School lunches stick to the wall. You can't hide a piece of broccoli in a glass of milk. Don't wear polka-dot underwear under white shorts. The best place to be when you are sad is in Grandma's lap. Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 4. Reviews A. Sean Penn is outstanding in MILK, the true story about America's first elected gay politician . . . he makes you really feel for Harvey Milk, a businessman who lost many races before getting elected to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors in 1977 . . . Josh Brolin, so fine in both W and NO COUNTRY FOR OLD MEN, again shines as Dan White--Milk's political colleague who eventually turns on him . . . make sure you stay for the ending credits to see how close the actors actually resembled their real characters . . . rated R. B. THE HOUSE BUNNY is now out in DVD format . . . my review from BLAINESWORLD #623 follows: THE HOUSE BUNNY is a goofy but fun tale of an orphan-turned Playboy bunny who gets kicked out of the Mansion . . . having no place to live, she winds up the house mother to a sorority that has seen better days . . . you can predict almost every joke, but you'll laugh in spite of yourself . . . Anna Faris is just perfect in the title role . . . her technique for memorizing names is one you'll never forget . . . rated PG-13. C. I loved the premise behind THE EXPERTS' GUIDE TO DOING THINGS FASTER by Samantha Ettus; i.e., to become more efficient in every aspect of every day. Ettus presents 100 different ideas in short but insightful chapters that included daily essentials, lifestyle lessons, beauty basics, romance road maps, physical feats, money matters and healthy hints . . . she chose 100 of the word's leading experts to write them,, ranging from Hannah Storm on getting ready in the morning to Sir Richard Branson on getting a loan . .. some names were not immediately recognizable, such as New York's most famous doorman ("Make Someone Feel Good") and an Olympic eater ("Cure a Stomachache"), but that did not take away from the value of their advice. I learned much from reading this book, and methinks you will too . . . for instance: * [reducing the length of meetings] Start at a specific time each day, and make it an odd one, like 8:08 a.m. or 4:44 p.m. I've observed a strange psychological pattern: people are more likely to be prompt when the start time is not on the half or quarter hour. (Worried that you'll forget the meeting while traveling? Set a recurring reminder alarm on your cell phone or Black Berry.) * [returning phone calls] Stay away from message dumping (e.g., calling a person's office to leave a message at 9 p.m. when you know they've left for the day). This practice is transparent and reflects poorly on you. The only way to close a deal or reach a resolution on something is to speak with the person directly. Some ideas were so good that they were repeated--in slightly different fashion--in different chapters, such as: * [achieving success] Distractions are the enemy of focused attention. A successful race car driver told me, "A little bit of distraction and you could have a really bad day." . . . Deborah McGiness, senior research scientist at Stanford, said to me, "Getting my degree, every year I cut out things. I remember the year I sacrificed movies. I just said, 'I can't afford the time. I'll put movies back in my life again once I finish the Ph.D.' " * [unleash your creativity] Clear the deck so that you can focus your energies on the area in which creativity is needed. Completely unplug yourself from your phones, computer, email, television, radio, and any other distractions from people and pets. So that said, I guess it's time for me to stop taking calls and answering emails . . . and, also, turn-off the DVD I'm half-watching . . . so I can finish the rest of this week's newsletter! D. Brian Biro (see also Section 1A)--known professionally as America's Breakthrough Coach--has conducted a series of interviews with some of the most extraordinary people of our time. He has made all of these available on CD . . . I recently had the opportunity to hear his talk with Nino Qubein, president of High Point University and a legendary motivational speaker . . . was I ever impressed, not only with Biro's interviewing techniques but with what Qubein had to say. Among the tidbits I gained from listening were these: * As long as you're going to think, think big. * Being a great communicator is not as important as connecting with people. * Reputation is what people think you are. Character is what God knows you are. * Unfortunately, the only people in our society who welcome change are babies in wet diapers. * Your value is measured by the size of problems you are capable of solving. * Young people are like airplanes. You only hear about the ones that crash. You don't hear about all the ones who do great things. And this final bit of advice that is something that I'll be attempting to follow in my rewirement: * As adults, a third of your life is in earning, a third of your life ought to be involved in learning and a third of your life should be involved in serving. My only regret is that I never got to have Qubein as my boss at any college where I have been employed. FOR MORE INFORMATION: On obtaining this informative CD, as well as Biro's other many excellent programs and books, please click: https://www3251.ssldomain.com/connectec/secure/biro/order.htm In addition, should you wish to book Biro for your next meeting, seminar, event or conference, please click: http://www.briandbiro.com/about.htm You won't go wrong! Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 5. TV alert A. Just in time for your New Year's Eve parties is the fact that you'll be able to catch 30 MINUTE MEALS and get suggestions from Rachael Ray about what to serve . . . Saturday at 10 a.m. on FOOD NETWORK. B. Faith Ford and Cameron Daddo star in A KISS AT MIDNIGHT, a TV-movie about two rivals in the matchmaking biz who eventually fall in love--against their better judgment . . . Saturday at 9 p.m. on HALLMARK. C. NEIL YOUNG: HEART OF GOLD captures the singer in a 2006 concert . . . Saturday at 9 p.m. on VH1. D. The docu-comedy, SUMMER HEIGHTS HIGH, concludes with the opening of Mr. G's musical . . . I've been watching this warped series and have found it to be surprisingly entertaining . . . Sunday at 10:30 p.m. on HBO. Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 6. Why men don't write advice columns * Letter to the advice columnist: Dear Walter, I hope you can help me here. The other day, I set off for work leaving my husband in the house watching the TV as usual. I hadn't driven more than a mile down the road when the engine conked out and the car shuddered to a halt. I walked back home to get my husband's help. When I got home I couldn't believe my eyes. He was in our bedroom with the neighbors' daughter. I'm 32, my husband is 34, and the neighbors' daughter is 22. We have been married for ten years. When I confronted him, he broke down and admitted that they had been having an affair for the past six months. I told him to stop or I'd leave him. He was let go from his job six months ago, and he says he has been feeling increasingly depressed and worthless. I love him very much, but ever since I gave him the ultimatum he has become increasingly distant. He won't go to counseling, and I'm afraid I can't get through to him anymore. Can you please help? Sincerely, Sheila * His response: Dear Sheila: A car stalling after being driven a short distance can be caused by a variety of faults with the engine. Start by checking that there is no debris in the fuel line. If it's clear, check the vacuum pipes and hoses on the intake manifold and also check all grounding wires. If none of these approaches solves the problem, it could be that the fuel pump itself is faulty, causing low delivery pressure to the injectors. Mainly have your air filters cleaned or replaced. I hope this helps with your problem. Walter Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 7. Websites A. You can now watch top feature-length documentaries for free, share them with friends or even make your own virtual movie theater or yourself or friends by clicking: http://www.snalfilms.com This is an amazing website that I just discovered . . . I also put together a compilation of five interesting films that I thought you might like to see, including: * SUPER SIZE ME Filmmaker Morgan Spurlock unravels the American obesity epidemic by interviewing experts nationwide and by subjecting himself to a “McDonald’s only” diet for thirty days straight. * PAPER CLIPS Whitwell Middle School in rural Tennessee is the setting for this documentary about an extraordinary experiment in Holocaust education. * ORTHODOX STANCE Dmitriy Salita, a 25 year-old Russian immigrant, is making history as a top professional boxer and a rigorously observant Jew. * WHALES IN CRISIS Embark on a globe-spanning journey with National Geographic to discover the most recent findings about these majestic, highly intelligent creatures. * NEW ENGLAND HOCKEY: LIFE AT THE RINK Winters in New England are long, dark and very cold; and for most New Englanders, the one thing that keeps them going is a sport that has roots deeper than any other--Hockey. To view any and/or all of the above, just click: http://www.clearspring.com/widgets/494037af58fb5b39?p=-&flv=title%3DBLAINESWORLD%252520choices%25252Ftop%252520docs%26ids%3D26%257C56%257C130%257C314%257C60%257C B. For years, unauthorized Monty Python stuff has been posted on YouTube . . . however, that will no longer be the case since there is now an "official" YouTube site devoted just to Monty Python: http://www.youtube.com/montypython You can view more than two dozen high-quality clips from their films and TV shows, interviews with members John Cleese and Eric Idle, and rarely seen home movies. C. BLAINESWORLD, the website, remains up and running . . . to view it, please click: http://www.blainesworld.net To view some of my favorite websites, click "Blaine's Best" on the left, then "Websites" . . . I'm in the process of revising these, but in the meantime, please go to letter "R" for a free reverse phone directory . . . this will enable you provide a phone number, then get contact information about the person and/or company. Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 8. Computer tip FREE downloads for you computer, iPOd or Apple TV that are completely legal can be obtained from the iTunes store by clicking: http://www.itsfreedownloads.com/ You'll find lots of free music and free videos . . . in addition, you can keep up with latest free iTunes downloads by subscribing to the RSS feed or the email mailing list . . . you can even use the free iTunes web widget and add it to your MySpace profile, Facebook applications, iGoogle homepage or many other websites and blogs. And if you're looking at even more free music than what iTunes has, then please click: http://www.jdoqocy.com/click-2147028-10364977?url=http://www.emusic.com/dailydownloads/toolbar/main.html Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 9. My kind of obituary James William "Jim" Adams lived life to the fullest--even after he was dead. His final act was to have his family send the following obituary to the local newspaper--the Casper (WY) STAR TRIBUNE--that was published September 15, 2008: A celebration of life for James William "Jim" Adams, 53, will be held at a later date. He died Tuesday, Sept. 9, 2008 at Memorial Hospital of Converse County in Douglas. Jim, who had tired of reading obituaries noting other's courageous battles with this or that disease, wanted it known that he lost his battle. It was primarily as a result of being stubborn and not following doctor's orders or maybe for just living life a little too hard for better than five decades. He was born June 8, 1955 in Garrison, ND, the son of James William and Ruby Helen (Clark) Adams. He was sadly deprived of his final wish, which was to be run over by a beer truck on the way to the liquor store to buy booze for a date. True to his personal style, he spent his final hours joking with medical personnel, cussing and begging for narcotics and bargaining with God to look over his loving dog, Biscuit, and his family. He would like to thank all "his ladies" for putting up with him the last 30 years. During his life, he excelled at anything he put his mind to. He loved to hear and tell jokes and spin tales of grand adventures he may or may not have had. He is survived by five sons, Jeremiah Adams and his wife, Nicole, Mica Olivas, Wade Olivas, Brice Simpson and Cole Adams; sister, Jerri Giegerich; two ex-wives, Vickie Harrison and Marilyn Williams; four grandchildren; two nieces; and two great-nieces. He was preceded in death by his parents and a brother-in-law. In lieu of flowers, he asks that you make a sizeable purchase at your favorite watering hole, get rip roaring drunk and tell the stories he no longer can. Gorman Funeral Homes is in charge of the arrangements. SOURCE: http://casperstartribune.net/articles/2008/09/15/news/obituaries/a8e87b45d855b1be872574c4007aa6d2.txt Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 10. A quote I like There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.--Albert Einstein (1879-1955), German-born theoretical physicist best known for his theory of relativity Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 11. Thought for the day Santa Claus, the true story I remember my first Christmas party with Grandma. I was just a kid. I remember tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the day my big sister dropped the bomb: "There is no Santa Claus," she jeered. "Even dummies know that!" My grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been. I fled to her that day because I knew she would be straight with me. I knew Grandma always told the truth, and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with one of her world-famous cinnamon buns. Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm. Between bites, I told her everything. She was ready for me. "No Santa Claus!" she snorted. "Ridiculous! Don't believe it. That rumor has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad. Now, put on your coat, and let's go." "Go? Go where, Grandma?" I asked. I hadn't even finished my second cinnamon bun. "Where" turned out to be Kerby's General Store, the one store in town that had a little bit of just about everything. As we walked through its doors, Grandma handed me ten dollars. That was a bundle in those days. "Take this money and buy something for someone who needs it. I'll wait for you in the car." Then she turned and walked out of Kerby's. I was only eight years old. I'd often gone shopping with my mother, but never had I shopped for anything all by myself. The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to finish their Christmas shopping. For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what to buy, and who on earth to buy it for. I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school, the people who went to my church. I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of Bobbie Decker. He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock's grade-two class. Bobbie Decker didn't have a coat. I knew that because he never went out for recess during the winter. His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that he had a cough, but all we kids knew that Bobbie Decker didn't have a cough, and he didn't have a coat. I fingered the ten-dollar bill with growing excitement. I would buy Bobbie Decker a coat. I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it. It looked real warm, and he would like that. "Is this a Christmas present for someone?" the lady behind the counter asked kindly, as I laid my ten dollars down. "Yes," I replied shyly. "It's ... For Bobbie." The nice lady smiled at me. I didn't get any change, but she put the coat in a bag and wished me a Merry Christmas. That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat in Christmas paper and ribbons, and write, "To Bobbie, From Santa Claus" on it -- Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy. Then she drove me over to Bobbie Decker's house, explaining as we went that I was now and forever officially one of Santa's helpers. Grandma parked down the street from Bobbie's house, and she and I crept noiselessly and hid in the bushes by his front walk. Then Grandma gave me a nudge. "All right, Santa Claus," she whispered, "get going." I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step, pounded his doorbell and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma. Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open. Finally it did, and there stood Bobbie. Forty years haven't dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my grandma, in Bobbie Decker's bushes. That night, I realized that those awful rumors about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were: ridiculous. Santa was alive and well, and we were on his team. Author unknown (if you know who wrote this and/or the source, please let me know) Back to Top _________________________________________________________ 12. Advance planning department A. Do try to listen to this new radio show: The Medical View: East Meets West with Doctors Beth Dupree, Amy Harvey and Deirdre Walsh Saturdays from 10-11 a.m. on 860 AM in Philadelphia Or listen via the Internet by clicking: http://www.wwdbam.com/ B. Just in time to bring in the new year and release holiday stresses: Restorative Yoga workshop with Kathy Russo returns Sunday, December 28, 2-4 p.m. at the Princeton Center for Yoga & Health A great way to round out your holiday week. Relax, renew, nourish yourself. Bring your holiday guests; they will thank you for this gift! To register, please click: http://www.princetonyoga.com C. Remember: Laughter is good for the soul. So what better way than to welcome in the New Year than be attending a live comedy performance? Some of the best can be viewed at the following locations: Bucks/Montgomery County: http://www.comedycabaret.com/delaware.html D. Best-selling author James McBride joins those in the Princeton area for the paperback release of his highly acclaimed novel SONG YET SUNG. He will be there for an entertaining and enlightening discussion and book signing. Monday, Jan 26 at 7:30 p.m. Barnes & Noble Booksellers MarketFair Mall 3535 US Route 1 South Princeton, NJ 609.716.1570 Back to Top ________________________________________________________ PS. Hoping that you join me in celebrating ALL the holidays (you get more food and gifts that way), may you and your family have a Merry Christmas . . . and to help make that possible, consider copying my plan: I'm going to put mistletoe in my back pocket so all the people who hate me can kiss my butt! And on the subject of celebrations, don't forget to have a Happy Kwanzaa too! Also, please join me in praying that we soon get our remaining soldiers back from Iraq and that peace resumes in Israel . . . in addition, make it a great week! ---------------------------------------------------------- SUBSCRIBE/UNSUBCRIBE INFORMATION To subscribe to this publication, please send an email to: bginbc@aol.com and put SUBSCRIBE in subject line . . . if you wish to unsubscribe, just send an email to same address and put UNSUBSCRIBE in subject line. |