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BLAINESWORLD

#691
12.28.2009

In this issue:
1. Reflections
2. FYI
3. Take your choice (for the New Year) 
4. Reviews . . .  UP IN THE AIR, etc.
5. TV alert
6. Those were the days
7. Websites
8. Computer tip
9. Bear removal basic.
10. A quote I like
11. Thought for the day
12. Advance planning department

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1. Reflections

A. Cynthia, my beautiful bride, and I visited the impressive National

Gingerbread House Competition Display at the Grove Park Inn . . . that's

us in the lobby:

 

 

B. We got there just in time to catch the daily concert that features

employees singing Christmas carols . . . below is my Leadership Asheville

classmate, John Beatty, along with his son: 

 

 

C. It was also the week for lots of gatherings with friends and neighbors . . . I

went to a nice Holiday party at my accountant's office . . . you've heard me

mention his name before, but here it is again: Glenn Gleghorn, CPA . . . I recommend

both him and his staff highly . . . for more information, please visit:

 

http://gleghorncpa.com/services.html

 

We then both went to Julia, our next door neighbor, for Christmas dinner with

her son Conner and some other neighbors.

 

  

She is a most gracious hostess who makes a terrific lasagna . . . afterward,

we decided she could have us back any time . . . and she did, along with

some other neighbors, when we got together for dessert the very next night.

 

And during the week, a bunch of us (we have a very friendly neighborhood) got together

for lunch at Modesto (828.225.4133) in Asheville . . . I liked the spinach pizza; it had

a thin yet tasty crust . . . Cynthia said her Caesar salad was good.

 

D. Like many others, we used the week to catch several of the movies that are

currently out . . . we very much enjoyed UP IN THE AIR (see also Section 4A) and

as reported previously, we both liked and recommend you see THE BLIND SIDE

and INVICTUS.

 

We recently saw ME AND ORSON WELLES . . . catch it, if just for Christian

McKay's portrayal of Welles . . . NINE was watchable, though overall,

disappointing (especially because of the way it butchered "Unusual Way,"

one of my favorite songs) . . . whatever you do, miss DID YOU HEAR ABOUT

THE MORGANS?

 

Next up: IT'S COMPLICATED.

 

For some reason, I'm still up in the air about seeing AVATAR, as well as

SHERLOCK HOLMES.

 

MR. CURIOUS HERE:

 

As always, I'm interested in your reaction to any and/or all of the above

films . . . plus any others that come along . . .  thanks in advance!

***** BLAINESWORLD BEST AWARD *****

This week, it goes to Mountain View Tire & Service in Asheville--the place where

we now get service for both our cars.

 

I first heard about this business from Paul Anderson, president/CEO and a

neighbor . . . being impressed with what he had to say, I checked it out recently

and was convinced that these fine folks do things right.

 

How often do you see a waiting room that is both airy and spotlessly clean? In

addition, they serve fresh popcorn, coffee and green tea on a daily basis, and

women are given a rose on each visit.

 

We were helped by Glenn Lewis, story manager, and enjoyed his friendly

manner . . . also, we appreciated how Neil Spieler, service manager, kept in touch

with us about the status of repairs that we needed done.

 

Lastly, we liked the buy 4, get 1 free promotion on oil changes, along with the

preferred customer discount card that we were given.

 

For more information, call 828.253.4818 or please click:

 

http://www.mvtire.com

 

NOTE:

 

Glenn and Neil are at the Patton Ave. location . . . that's the one we go to

because it is closest to us . . . other Mountain View locations are on Tunnel

Road in Asheville, as well as in Arden, Hendersonville and Waynesville.

 

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2. FYI

 

Do you always fully listen when somebody is speaking to you? Methinks

that I don't do this nearly enough, and that too often I resemble the

character in the story below from Mitch Albom's HAVE A LITTLE

FAITH (see also Sections 4C, 10 and 11):

 

A little girl came home from school with a drawing she'd made in class. She

danced into the kitchen where her mother was preparing dinner.

 

"Mom, guess what?" she squealed, waving the drawing.

 

Her mother never looked up, "What?’ she said, tending to the pots.

 

"Guess what?" The child repeated, waving the drawing.

 

"What!"  the mother said, tending to the plates.

 

"Mom, you're not listening."

 

"Sweetie, yes I am."

 

"Mom," the child said, "you're not listening with your eyes."

FYI, part 2

*  Alyson in Colorado (with a REQUST FOR HELP):

Two years ago, I volunteered for a study at our local animal shelter
in which we played classical music for the crated animals waiting for
adoption. Their anxiety symptoms (panting, incessant barking, pacing
and repetitive scratching / licking) all diminished while the music played.  
There have also been studies that show some people with Alzheimer’s
Disease are similarly soothed by music. I'm interested in any stories
about the healing properties of music that you'd like to share.

 

* Jim in Pennsylvania asked me to please forward the following:

 

Hello Lab Supporters and Friends!

 

This week, I am working with an amazing team of rescue folks in North Carolina  to help get

these labs out of the horrid County Shelter in Gaston, NC, which is a high kill gassing shelter

I am in urgent need for temporary housing for these dogs; they need foster homes in our area. 

These are gorgeous lab & lab mixes, very adoptable dogs. They will get adopted quickly. 

 

Can you help foster a dog or recruit a friend/ family member?  It truly is a matter of life or death

for each of the dogs on this list!  They MUST get out by Monday, Jan. 4. 

 

Thanks so much for your help!

 

Jane

 215.429.7746

 

* Terri in Pennsylvania:

Thinking of vacationing in Ocean City during Summer 2010? Consider this great
beach house . . . just 4 Houses to the beach! We include beach tags, wireless
Internet service, 42" HDTV, 3 Sharp 19" Flat Screens (1 in each bedroom),
DVD/VCR combos, fully stocked kitchen, beach chairs and much more!

 

3 bedroom Condo sleeps 8 in Ocean City, New Jersey.

This 3 bedroom Ocean City Condo Rental sleeps 8. Book this Ocean City vacation rental,

7787 at:

 

www.vacationrentals.com

 

* Pat in Pennsylvania:

 

Check out my web site. Click on the video page, scroll down  to the bottom and click

the Youtube link to watch the movie I made for OFT labs. We even paid actors for this one. 

Be sure your sound is on. Hope you enjoy!   

 

You may even see some people you know in the other pictures.

 

www.phillyshots.com

 

WHAT PAT IS REFERRING TO:

 

Under "weddings," you'll see a picture of my daughter Risa . . . under "portraits, you'll see

a picture of Cynthia with her sister Joyce at our wedding . . . Pat took the pictures at

both these events and did an absolutely super job.

 

* Nick in Vermont:

 

I wish more people would think this way! [He was commenting on my review

of Tony Dungy's book, UNCOMMON, in which I wrote that Dungy is a devout

evangelical Christian . . . that fact should not defer you from appreciating the book,

even if you are not that particular religion.] Thanks, Blaine! 

 

* Kathy in Florida:

 

My daughter has been a long-time fan of Celia Rievenbank, and I've read some

of her stuff. Kelly even orders the books online before they are printed.

 

* Marty in New Jersey:

 

You're so effective [as a hypnotist] that just reading your newsletter has made me smoke free.

 

OK, so maybe I never did get started to begin with--but I'm sure that I was a smoker,

I would've stopped by now thanks to your efforts!

 

* Diane in Pennsylvania:

 

I saw the funniest sign yesterday: If you need a shoulder to cry on, pull off to the

side of the road!


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3. Take your choice (for the New Year)

An optimist stays up to see the New Year in. A pessimist waits to make
sure the old one leaves.

SOURCE:

Bill Vaughan (1915-77), American columnist and author


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4. Reviews

 

A. I very much liked UP IN THE AIR; in fact, it's one of my favorite

films from this past year . . . it's a comedy of sorts (with some serious

parts) about a guy who travels the country, telling workers they've

been let go . . . his one goal in life is to reach the five million frequent

flyer plateau; however things change when he encounters another

fellow frequent traveler . . . she is well-played by Vera Farmiga (also so fine in

THE DEPARTED, THE BOY IN THE STRIPED PAJAMAS, etc.) . . . look for

something different, too, in the man-on-the-street interviews throughout

the proceedings . . . they were conducted with real people who had actually

just lost their jobs . . . rated R.

 

B. FOUR CHRISTMASES is now out in DVD format . . . my review from
BLAINESWORLD #637 follows:

 

If Vince Vaughn is in a film, I'm usually going to laugh . . . that
again was the case in his latest effort, FOUR CHRISTMASES, where
he and Reese Witherspoon play a happily unmarried couple who find
themselves having to spend time with their divorced parents . . . the
beginning was very funny; however, by midpoint, it started to
drag . . . and I did find the ending to be far too predictable . . . reviews
from most critics were not very favorable; however, from a box
office standpoint, FOUR CHRISTMASES has been a big
hit . . . rated PG-13.

 

For a far better rental, look for FIVE PENNIES . . . based on the life of trumpeter Red Nichols,

this sentimental biopic stars Danny Kaye as a musician with grand ambitions . . . just

when he is to hit it big, his daughter (Tuesday Weld) develops polio  . . . so he quits

the entertainment business, only to make a comeback years later when the Weld

character convinces him to give it another shot . . . there are some great numbers,

including a few featuring Louie Armstrong, along with a bunch of funny bits . . . it did not get

rated at the time of release, though I do believe it would be appropriate for any child over 6.

 

C. Mitch Albom wrote one of my favorite books of the past 15 years, TUESDAYS

WITH MORRIE . . . I don't know if his latest effort, HAVE A LITTLE FAITH (see also

Sections 2, 4C, 10 and 11), tops it . . . but it is definitely up there with any list of current

books that I'd strongly recommend.

 

FAITH begins when Albom is summoned to deliver the eulogy of the rabbi from

his New Jersey hometown . . . though the rabbi is still living, he has chosen the author as

the man to do the job in the future . . . Albom accepts, but only on the condition

that he gets to conduct a series of interviews with the rabbi to get to know him better.

 

Around the same, Albom also becomes involved with a Detroit pastor who also happens

to be a reformed drug dealer and convict . . . his church has its own problems; i.e., it

is decaying and there's a hole in its roof.

 

The writing repeatedly moved me . . . to cite one such passage where that was the case:

 

* . . .  and I am in my religious high school. The subject is the parting of the Red Sea. I yawn.

 What is left to learn about this? I've heard it a million times. I look across the room to a girl

I like and contemplate how hard it would be to get her attention.

 

“There is a Talmudic commentary here,” the teacher says.

 

Oh, great I figure. This means translation, which is slow and painful. But as the story unfolds,

I begin to pay attention.

 

After the Israelites safely crossed the Red Sea, the Egyptians chased after them and were

drowned. God’s angels wanted to celebrate the enemy’s demise.

 

According to the commentary, God saw this and grew angry. He said, in essence: “Stop

celebrating. For those were my children, too.”

 

Those were my children, too.

 

“What do you think of that?” the teacher asks us.

 

Someone else answers. But I know what I think. I think it is the first time I've heard that God

might love the “enemy” as well as us.

 

Years later, I will forget the class, forget the teacher’s name, forget the girl across the room.

But I will remember that story.

 

In addition, I liked the several stories that were interspersed throughout, including

this one:

 

* A man buried his wife. At the gravesite he stood by the Reb, tears falling down his face.

“I loved her,” he whispered.

 

The Reb nodded.

 

“I mean . . . I really loved her.” The man broke down.

 

“And…I almost told her once.”

 

The Reb looked at me sadly. “Nothing haunts like the things we don't say.”

 

Lastly, the book got me viewing life through a different framework--something

I like to do from time to time . . . here Albom describes a realization that

he came to while driving home one night:

 

* That I am neither better nor smarter, only luckier. And I should be ashamed of thinking

I knew everything, because you can know the whole world and still feel lost in it. So many

people are in pain—no matter how smart or accomplished—they cry, they yearn, they hurt.

But instead of looking down on things, they look up, which is where I should have been

looking, too. Because when the world quiets to the sound of your own breathing, we all want

the same things: comfort, love, and a peaceful heart.

 

Even though the holiday gift-giving season will have passed by the time you read

this review, I still recommend you purchase HAVE A LITTLE FAITH . . . not just

for you; it also makes the ideal gift for any man or woman of the cloth that you know.

 

D. Heard the CD version of YOUR POWER TO CREATE, written and
read by Caroline Myss . . she is the author of three others books, as well
as being a leading voice in the field of human consciousness.

Her message is that things aren't always quite as easy as they
might appear in THE SECRET or any of countless other books about  
the law of attraction . . . rather:

* The reason people sabotage is because they don't want their life
to change. They don't want to work so hard. You want the power to create
IF it doesn't cost anything. You want a god to change everything around you,
but you don't have to change a thing. That's why the "power to create"  doesn't
work for them: they're undisciplined. They can't follow the guidance to walk 
20 minutes a day, but they'll try to heal a major illness.

Although the world may seem to be degenerating quickly, the good
news according to the author is that the new millennium:

* is the "decade of mysticism" where we need to cooperate with God,
tenaciously follow the soul's guidance, and become fearless "mystics
without monasteries."

Though the author's voice comes across as shrill, especially in
the beginning, it eventually grows on you . . . she has a lot to
offer if you're ready to receive it. 

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5. TV alert

 

OOOPS, my part:

 

Last week's issue contained the some interesting TV shows--but they were for this week . . . sorry 'bout that . . . however, since they have not yet aired, here they are . . . again:

A. THREE STOOGES MARATHON begins at 7 a.m. on Thursday and continues for the next 23 hours on AMC . . . what a great opportunity to have your kids and grandkids discover the performers you may well have loved as a kid. (Guilty pleasure admission: I did!) 

B. DOG TOWN has its season premiere on Friday at 10 p.m. on NATIONAL

GEORGRAPHIC with an episode about the pit bulls rescued from Michael

Vick's dog-fighting ring.

 

C. TAYLOR SWIFT WORLD DOMINATION: A CMT INSIDER SPECIAL will,

hopefully, help me understand why the singer is so popular . . . Saturday

at 1:30 p.m. on CMT.

 

D. Finally, a show for me: WORST COOKS IN AMERICA . . . 12 people

who have no business being in the kitchen compete for the chance to cook

for a panel of food critics . . . season premiere on Sunday at 10 p.m.

on FOOD NETWORK.

 

And as a special bonus, one more that I didn't mention last week:

 

E. IRON CHEF AMERICA: SUPER CHEF BATTLE . . . the Iron Chefs make

a special stop to 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue . . . MIchelle Obama invites

Bobby Flay and Mario Batali, along with Emeril Lagasse and White House

Executive Chef Cristeta Comerford, to take part in a challenge to create

a meal using "special ingredients" culled from the First Family's vegetable

garden . . . Sunday at 8 p.m. on FOOD NETWORK. 


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6.  Those were the days

Remember when Ronald Reagan was president. We also had Bob Hope
and Johnny Cash.

Well, now we have Obama and no hope and no cash.

MY TWO CENTS:

If the above offended you, let me apologize in advance of your writing
me . . . that was and is not my intent; rather, my goal is to put a smile
on your face--regardless of your political leanings.

 

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7. Websites

A. For a great new website to check out Asheville's cultural scene, please click:

http://livewireasheville.com/

For discount coupons in general (including restaurants), please click:

http://www.halfpriceasheville.com/intro.php

For restaurants in particular, please click:

http://www.restaurant.com

KEEP IN MIND:

Above is great for restaurants throughout the country, too . . . if you
wait for the coupons to be on sale, you can sometimes pay just
$2 for a coupon that will save you $25!

B. On how to turn disappointment around, please click:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BGODurRfVv4

You'll want to share this, I'm sure with anybody you know who owns dogs and/or is into surfing. It is very inspirational.

C. BLAINESWORLD, the website, remains up and running . . . to view
it, please click:

http://www.blainesworld.net

MANY THANKS to Lori Hansen for upgrading the archives for this website with respect to past issues of BLAINESWORLD . . . so if you go to Newsletter on the left, then Past issues, you'll be able to find out what you seek if it came out over the past few years  . . . a helpful search engine tool at the very top makes it possible to find information on such specific topics as "pregnancy weight" . . . using it I came up with the following from #513:

Social skills

Our catering manager lacks certain social skills—like knowing when
to keep her mouth shut. While discussing a baby christening party
with a young couple, she told the mother, ”You look like you've lost
most of your pregnancy weight.” 

“Thanks,” came the clenched-teeth reply. “We adopted."   

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8. Computer tip

I hope your laptop never gets stolen . . . not only do you need to get
a replacement, but you're also lose all your personal data that
could be used by others to get into your checking and other
accounts.

There's now an option that can help you:

http://www.PreyProject.com

Should your laptop go missing, just contact the website and report
that fact . . . Prey then leaps into action, silently connecting
your laptop to any available network . . . it starts sending back reports,
documenting the current IP, screenshots of what the thief is doing and
even photos, if you have a webcam . . . best of all, it's FREE.

The above sounded almost too good to be true, so I checked
another source to see if it is legitimate . . .  it certainly seems
legitimate to me, as evidenced by the following:

http://blogs.bnet.com/businesstips/?p=3979

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9. Bear removal basics

A man wakes up one morning to find a bear on his roof. So he looks in
the yellow pages and sure enough, there's an ad for bear removers. He
calls the number, and the bear remover says he'll be over in 30 minutes.
 
The bear remover arrives and gets out of his van. He's got a ladder, a
baseball bat, a shotgun and a mean old pit bull.

"What are you going to do?" the bewildered homeowner asks.

"I'm going to put this ladder up against the roof, then I'm going to go up
there and knock the bear off the roof with this baseball bat. When the bear
falls off, the pit bull is trained to grab his testicles and not let go. The bear
will then be subdued enough for me to put him in the cage in the back
of the van."

"Huh," the homeowner says. "But what's the shotgun for?"

"Well," the professional says as hands the shotgun to the homeowner,
"if the bear knocks me off the roof, you shoot the dog."

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10. A quote I like

The Reb was lucky to have such a love with Sarah. It had endured hardships

by relying on cooperation—and selflessness. The Reb was fond of telling young

couples, “Remember, the only difference between ‘marital’ and ‘martial’ is where

you put the ‘I.' "--Mitch Albom in HAVE A LITTLE FAITH (see also Sections

2, 4C and 11)

 

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11. Thought for the day  

 

What if you only get five minutes with God?

 

“Five minutes?” he said.

 

Five minutes, I said. God is a busy God. Here’s your slice of heaven. Five minutes

alone with the Lord and then, poof, on you go to whatever happens next.

 

“And in those five minutes?” he asks, intrigued.

 

In those five minutes, you can ask anything you want.

 

“Ah. Okay”

 

He pushed back into the chair, as if consulting the air around him. “First I would

say, ‘Do me a favor, God in heaven, if you can, members of my family who need help,

please show them the way on earth. Guide them a little.’ ”

 

Okay, that’s a minute.

 

“The next three minutes, I’d say, ‘Lord, give this to someone who is suffering and

requires your love and counsel.’ ”

 

You'd give up three minutes?

 

“If someone truly needs, yes.”

 

Okay, I said, That still leaves you a minute.

 

“All right. In that final minute, I would say, ‘Look, Lord, I've done X amount of good stuff

on earth. I have tried to follow your teaching and to pass them on. I have loved my family.

I've been part of a community. And I have been, I think, fairly good to people. So, Heavenly

Father, for all this, what is my reward?’ ”

 

And what do you think God will say?

 

He smiled.

 

“He'll say, ‘Reward? That’s what you were supposed to do!' "

 

SOURCE:

 

HAVE A LITTLE FAITH (see also Sections 2, 4C and 10), a  book

by Mitch Albom that I REALLY liked as evidenced by the fact that the above

was the fourth time cited it in this week's missive.

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12. Advance planning department

 

A. Cynthia (see also Section 1A) will be conducting two JourneyDance/
Move Your Body sessions in January . . . the first one takes place
at 7 p.m. on January 5 at our Biltmore Lake clubhouse, and the
second one takes place at 6:30 p.m. on January 28 at Jubilee (a spiritual

center in Asheville) . . . if you'd like to attend either and/or both sessions, just

send an email to bginbc@aol.com and put JourneyDance in the subject line.

 

B. Yours truly remains available to hypnotize you . . . or as I like to say, let me help

you lose your baggage before you get to the airport . . . I specialize in helping

folks become smoke-free, but can also help you lose weight, stop nail-biting,

develop confidence, reduce stress, etc. . . to contact me, send an email to

bginbc@aol.com and put HYPNOISIS in the subject line.

 

Keep in mind that I'm now having some fantastic results via the telephone (yes,

it does work!) . . . so even if you're not in my immediate area, let's talk about

whether I can help you.

 

C. OLD MAN TRAPS DEATH IN TREE AS ACTORS’ NET STAGES FANTASY

The Actors’ NET of Bucks County starts off the New Year with a classic
fantasy drama, Paul Osborn’s On Borrowed TimeWhen an old man meets
Death in the form of “Mr. Brink,” the sly old-timer tricks the grim reaper into
climbing an enchanted tree from which there is no escape.  Death must stay
treed until the old man lets him down. Knowing he'll be the next victim,
the old man has no intention of doing so. Meanwhile, nobody dies anywhere!   

Directed by NET General Manager Joe Doyle of Morrisville and starring John
Pinto of Yardley, Chuck Donnelly of Levittown and Joshua Baumgarten of
Yardley.  Costarring Virginia Barrie of Ewing, NJ; Jo Page of Doylestown; Jaci
D’Ulisse of Trenton, NJ; Marco Newton of Yardley; Dennis McGuire of
Levittown; Tom Harrelson of Churchville; Vince Pileggi of Southampton;
John Helmke of Hamilton, NJ; and Mike Gearty of Langhorne. Set design
by Cheryl Doyle of Morrisville.  Lighting design by Andrena Wishnie
of Morrisville. Stage managed by John Helmke. Production Assistants, Mike
Gearty and Amanda Graf of Morrisville.  Produced by special arrangement

with Dramatists Play Service, Inc. Rated PG.

 

For more information, please click:


http://www.actorsnetbucks.org


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PS. Don't forget that 2010 is going to be your year . . . consequently,
after serious and cautious consideration, your contract of friendship
has been renewed for the new year with this wish for you:

May peace break into your house and may thieves come to steal your
debts. May the pockets of your jeans become a magnet of $100 bills.  
May love stick to your face like Vaseline and may laughter assault your
lips! May your clothes smell of success , may happiness slap you
across the face and may your tears be those of joy. May the problems
you had forget your home address! Or in simple words . . .

May the best part of your past year be the worst part of your coming year.

Also,  please join me in praying that we soon get our remaining soldiers
back from Iraq and Afghanistan . . .  and that peace comes to Israel
and her neighbors. . .  make it a great week, too!

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